fctjc1979
06-20-2010, 10:57 AM
This is going to probably seem like a strange question coming from a provider. After all, as a provider I should probably already know this. How does everyone get their toddlers to go to sleep at nap time?
The reason I ask is because everytime my mother comes up for a visit and I end up having to run an errand while she is here, when I get home my oldest daughter is sitting silently in the living room looking concerned and I can hear my fifteen-month-old daughter screaming and sobbing upstairs. When I go up there, my mom is either holding her down in the crib while trying to gently rub her face or holding her and jiggling her. My baby has some hearing issues and has been held down in doctor's offices so they can get good readings on her ears and now being held down just creates one PO'd baby. I know this is how she used to put us down for naps and a similar method worked for all my nieces, nephews, and my oldest daughter, but it does not work for my baby. I've tried explaining this to my mother but she insists that since I'm pregnant that I need to get the baby on a schedule. And I'm not saying that I disagree. But my daughter naturally regulates her own schedule.
Around 10 every morning she will climb up into my lap and try to go to sleep. At that point, I usually give her a sippy with some milk. If going to sleep doesn't work within ten minutes or so, she will get down, do something to expend some energy (usually chasing the dog, lol) for about five minutes, and then she crawl back up into my lap and fall asleep. She does it the same way around 4 in the afternoon. Now, I realize that if she was in a daycare setting other than her own home, something more concrete would probably have to be started so she went to sleep at the same time the other kids did, but aren't there ways to shift sleep schedules around?
I guess that's one positive thing about me being home with her. I can let her be who she is. I figure that if she is regulating her own naps, trying to force a nap by holding her down is an unnecessary battle of wills.
The reason I ask is because everytime my mother comes up for a visit and I end up having to run an errand while she is here, when I get home my oldest daughter is sitting silently in the living room looking concerned and I can hear my fifteen-month-old daughter screaming and sobbing upstairs. When I go up there, my mom is either holding her down in the crib while trying to gently rub her face or holding her and jiggling her. My baby has some hearing issues and has been held down in doctor's offices so they can get good readings on her ears and now being held down just creates one PO'd baby. I know this is how she used to put us down for naps and a similar method worked for all my nieces, nephews, and my oldest daughter, but it does not work for my baby. I've tried explaining this to my mother but she insists that since I'm pregnant that I need to get the baby on a schedule. And I'm not saying that I disagree. But my daughter naturally regulates her own schedule.
Around 10 every morning she will climb up into my lap and try to go to sleep. At that point, I usually give her a sippy with some milk. If going to sleep doesn't work within ten minutes or so, she will get down, do something to expend some energy (usually chasing the dog, lol) for about five minutes, and then she crawl back up into my lap and fall asleep. She does it the same way around 4 in the afternoon. Now, I realize that if she was in a daycare setting other than her own home, something more concrete would probably have to be started so she went to sleep at the same time the other kids did, but aren't there ways to shift sleep schedules around?
I guess that's one positive thing about me being home with her. I can let her be who she is. I figure that if she is regulating her own naps, trying to force a nap by holding her down is an unnecessary battle of wills.