Original poster here....thanks for the quick replies!

I try to make a quick exit-- today I hightailed it out of there! This is honestly the first time I have left him in tears in over 4 years (I was in tears today also.) Our daycare mom did call me on the way to work to let me know that he had calmed down.

We have been having a lot of behavior issues with him lately (not following directions or doing what he's told--at home, daycare and at school.) Two doctors suggested that he may be better in a more structured center, but I hate to separate my boys.

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