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Embarrassed to ask 08:25 AM 03-08-2011
Thanks for the info!

I rarely/never log out to ask questions, but this time, I just feel so stupid for needing ask it, lol. I was afraid someone would think I am horrible for not knowing or for asking, and accuse me of being racist or something. The way I tell with all the other kids/my own kids is redness, and I just didn't think that redness would show up on the dark skin in quite the same way. It's not like I don't live in an ethnically diverse area, I've just never happened to have an AA infant in care before, or have any friends I can ask IRL. I know a lot of people IRL who act like in this day and age we have to pretend that skin color doesn't exist, period, or you're racist...which makes me nervous to ask a question about something like this.
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