WOW! I haven't read all responses, but read your reply.

I would absolutely tell mom that his behavior is unacceptable, dangerous and when he's just a little older it will be scary. I would then ask her what she plans to do to correct his behavior because I would not be able to keep her son if he continues that behavior. I would make her come up with a plan of what she will do at home to stop this behavior and I would tell her that I will call her at work if he behavior becomes too threatening to the other children and she will need to pick him up for that day.

I'd give it a week and if it's not better, they're gone. And I'm not a provider that ever thinks of terming as an option, but whoa...

Good luck and KUP!

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