Well, it's a bad situation no matter what, IMO.

I just had a family leave - part of the reason is that dcg was doing this exact thing, only I DIDN'T KNOW IT because they never talked to me about any of it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HUH????????

This dcg was also telling her "stories"(lies) about my dgs who is the oldest and it is his house. But she told all kinds of things on him. Again, they never talked to me about it........................

I guess at least they're talking to you. I think I'd just come right out and ask if they feel comfortable with you watching her, and if they don't I'd offer to help them find a new situation. I think that would show them that you weren't guilty - after all, how much more could you do???

IMO - I wouldn't want her around.

One other thing, I'd document EVERYTHING!! I didn't know the dcg was doing this, but you do. Document every scratch, every discipline, etc. Just to CYA. Can't hurt anything.

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