Feeling Guilty About Taking Vacation :(

[Soupyszoo]

I don't know why! I just feel like its my job to be reliable and dependable and always here for my dcfamilies.

On the other hand... I'm on the verge of a nervous breakdown! I could really use a week with NO children to just clean and have it stay clean and not have to "care" for anyone, KWIM?! I haven't had a break since I started last October including holidays.

I need reassured that I deserve a vacation just as much as anyone else!

How much notice should I give etc.. Should I do it in writting or email or both?

(I don't have a handbook... I'm fairly new to this and all my families are friends... Until I have a contract and written rules, I have to do this the hard way.)

[cheerfuldom]

First off, I think you are making a big mistake in not having a handbook

but the plus side is that you can basically do this anyway you want. I always recommend in writing though.

Outline when you will take vacation, parents are responsible for finding alternate care, remind whether they agreed to pay for this vacation or not, date when you will re-open. I would give one month's notice for a one week vacation.

[CheekyChick]

I am going on 5 years and have yet to take a vacation. I KNOW I deserve it, as do you, but I also feel guilty about taking one. When I do, I will probably remain open and have my assistants take over for a few days. I feel very ready for a break.

[Texasjeepgirl]

Originally Posted by CheekyChick

I am going on 5 years and have yet to take a vacation. I KNOW I deserve it, as do you, but I also feel guilty about taking one. When I do, I will probably remain open and have my assistants take over for a few days. I feel very ready for a break.

All I can say is... WOW.. are you kidding??? 5 years.. NO TIME OFF??? Woman.. YOU NEED A BREAK... we all do...

Take a VACATION... you deserve it..
How many people do you know that do not ever take any type of time off? even a 3 or 4 day weekend would help..
Close daycare on a Thursday Friday and MOnday....Pick a date a month or two out.. and give PARENTS plenty of notice...
This year a great week to do it would be 4th of July...since it falls on Wednesday.....

[jojosmommy]

I think with plenty of notice parents will be fine with it. I try to give a month notice.

I would get your policies in writing so someone doesn't take advantage of you.

[Soupyszoo]

Originally Posted by Texasjeepgirl

All I can say is... WOW.. are you kidding??? 5 years.. NO TIME OFF??? Woman.. YOU NEED A BREAK... we all do...

Take a VACATION... you deserve it..
How many people do you know that do not ever take any type of time off? even a 3 or 4 day weekend would help..
Close daycare on a Thursday Friday and MOnday....Pick a date a month or two out.. and give PARENTS plenty of notice...
This year a great week to do it would be 4th of July...since it falls on Wednesday.....

That's exactly the week I was thinking! One dcb will already be gone wed, thurs, and Friday.

[momma2girls]

I have 2 weeks paid vacation each yr. All three of my families have grandparents, or they take off, when I take it off. It's never a problem, I always give plenty of advanced notice.

[cheerfuldom]

Originally Posted by CheekyChick

I am going on 5 years and have yet to take a vacation. I KNOW I deserve it, as do you, but I also feel guilty about taking one. When I do, I will probably remain open and have my assistants take over for a few days. I feel very ready for a break.

OMG! Why would you do this to yourself????