Reference Check on Parents?
Does anyone do a reference/Background check on the parents? Is this a good practice? do you think parents will get offended? Thanks!
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I do. likethis
I don't care if they get offended. Then again, I don't ask their permission so I am not sure why or how they would be offended. |
I do informally. It amazes me how unaware people still are that their social media says a lot about them and people check it. If they're constantly posting selfies of them sitting in their car all made up, a billion drama filled statuses and memes about how they don't need drama and toxic people blah blah blah.... I don't want to work with them. They're drama and they're also self absorbed 😉😁 Bonus negative points if they mention fighting anyone! Haha....I've been right every time I had a negative impression of someone based on their Facebook page. I don't let it stop me from interviewing, but they're walking in with 1 red flag already.
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Originally Posted by knoxmomof2: I once checked out the FB page of a parent who seemed nice on the phone. Her FB was full of obscene language and memes, video of her laughing as her son threw up in the bathroom and comments that made me do further research. Turned out both she and her husband were felons for drug trafficking!!! PASS!!! |
Originally Posted by Meeko: |
OP here. Thanks for everyones responses. Just to follow up. Do you or is it ok to call the previous daycare as why they're trying to switch? Most family will talk about it but is it ok to confirm it yourself?
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Originally Posted by Unregistered: I set my program policies up to protect me and my business. Any prior issues a family/child had in another program is none of my business nor does it effect my business in any way. As a provider if another provider called me and asked about a past family I wouldn't give any information to them other than confirming I no longer provide care. Anything beyond that is a breach of confidentiality and is unprofessional in my opinion. Most child care programs have a trial period to figure out if a family or child is or isn't a good fit. |
Originally Posted by Unregistered: Many times a child will thrive in a new environment so it really benefits no one. Blank slate is best for kids. Now, payment issues can be reported but are not as often as you would think. |
To clarify, I am really only screening for adult violent offenses and recent drug charges. I respect those who have turned their lives around and don't hold that against them.
This is my home and I am alone with six small children all day. That is more souls than I can carry and run, so a little prevention is common sense. Nothing more. |
Originally Posted by Cat Herder: |
I honestly check facebook first and then I also check our states public records. If a parent has any felonies at all, specifically drugs, domestics, kid related things.. I don't even tour. I also do a general google search. I'm sure they are doing the same with me, so I don't find offense with anything.
You can usually bank on if the parent is looking for care for a 3-4 year old, they were asked to leave the last place or they left because of some certain reason *the parent not getting their way*. I had a family with two kids come in and tour last fall and the kids (3 and 4) were on great behavior. Awesome kids.. turns out it was just a show. They were awful and had so many discipline issues I had to term after a month. They told me they left the last place because the kids were getting sick so much. They were awesome on their own (without each other, with exception for the little one having serious separation anxiety from his older brother) but together it was bad. Mom and dad knew and were excepting of the suggestions that I gave. I've ran into this more then once over the years of being in child care. |
Originally Posted by Unregistered: https://www.publicrecordsofficial.co...c6b300bd42a845 |
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Originally Posted by Blackcat31: |
Checking up on parents is something I always do now.
I found out about the drug traffickers (see above post) that way. I found out one of the DCD's that used to come and hang out was a registered sex offender (rape of a child)...that one changed EVERYTHING. We also did a "trade" deal with a DCD who was very handy. He did good work, but was slow and would whine to my husband and myself about how hard up he was and wished we were paying him cash instead of daycare services. I checked up on him and found he has a rap sheet for check fraud, theft, conning seniors etc. He had been very insistant on getting work done here when we weren't home. We always refused and are now very glad we did. I am sure stuff would have gone missing. You can NEVER be too careful. Our training rep told us at a licensing training class that she recommended running a check on parents. She said you have a right to know who is coming into your home. |
Originally Posted by Meeko: Wow, that's absolutely crazy, both of those! I definitely don't have someone work in my home when I'm gone for any reason, unless I've worked with them numerous times before and feel I can trust them. Not many get that freedom. |
Originally Posted by Meeko: Facebook can tell you some things about personality, but there are those who are pretty fake on facebook. |
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