STINK of Marijuana
I'm looking for advice regarding a child in my care who comes in stinking of marijuana everyday. When Dad drops off and picks up Dad reeks of it as well. I can't stand the smell of it. At first only dad smelled of it and now as time continues the child and his belongings have been smelling of it really bad. Would you send out a notice to all parents telling them it's not permitted or would you approach the family directly? I also had a grandparent (different family)pick up last week who smelled of it while I had a DHS person here checking in on a state aid child. I do not want the liability of these situations nor do I want the smell in my home.
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Originally Posted by WBee: |
Are you licensed? I would contact my licensing rep to ask for advice.
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I hadn't even thought of this situation--not legal here but it could still happen. What can we do about second hand smoke? It's dangerous for the child, but will licensing help?
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I would talk to the family. Maybe let them know that when dhs was visiting, they noticed the child smelled of marijuana?
Its a weird situation. In my state medical marijuana is legal, and i truly believe it doesnt do people any harm. The only thing that would bother me is the smell in my home but otherwise i wouldnt get cps involved or be mad the parent is even smoking it. But thats based on my research, personal opinion, and experience seeing how much it helped a family memebr with their pain and medical situation. Maybe if you say it like i stated above (dhs noticed) , the parent will be embarrassed and make sure the childs clothes arent near any smoke. |
I like the DHS idea. It is medically legal here so I can't assume how/why they're using it but like I said, I don't want the liability or the 'stink". I am licensed
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It’s legal in RI for medical use. And if they grow their medicine, especially indoors, everything will stink close to harvest time. It’s not detrimental to the child to be exposed to the pollen. I use it topically and frequently smell like it. But it’s under my clothing (shoulders and ankles) so it’s not enough to make the kids smell.
I’m not sure how a parent smelling like it would be a liability to anyone. But I would be concerned if a child’s belongings smelled like it and I was inspected in a state where it’s not legal. In California you can’t get away from it. My entire neighborhood smells like it. |
I had a parent who was a heavy smoker. I told her that her daughter's belongings needed to be put and sealed in a plastic bag upon arrival, due to her coat smelling of smoke. I explained that when her coat is near other coats, they picked up the odor and parents were complaining. Embarrassment happened. Mom stopped smoking in the car.
You could do the same, only substitute the word smoke for your dubbie, joint , Mary Jane, a fat one, etc. (I had help with these terms from my bff). |
In my state medical marijuana is legal but smoking it is not.
Those that use it medicinally use it in alternative methods that do not include smoking it. If I smelled marijuana on a DCK and suspected the parent was smoking, as a mandated reporter I would HAVE to report. My personal feelings about it one way or another play no role in state licensing requirements for mandated reporter. Smoking cigarettes in a vehicle WITH a child is also illegal in my state. |
Originally Posted by Blackcat31: Even if they werent smoking inside the car with the child, that smell takes up a whole house and gets into everything. I dont do daycare in my home, but my home is a twin home and we are attached by the garage. The neighbor smokes marijuana in his garage. I can smell it INSIDE my car! Its aweful. Im glad im moving soon. |
Originally Posted by MomBoss: Smoking marijuana is illegal so if a child's reeks like it, I must report. CPS will decide if it's worth investigating or not. |
Many medical uses that do not involve smoking, still stink. Including growing. Growers and their kids...stink. It's a very pungent plant when it matures. Topical use reeks more than smoking it too.
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Originally Posted by hwichlaz: The child nor the family has ever even remotely smelled. I would also think there is a distinctive difference between the actual odor of the plant or topical use and the small of marijuana smoke. I mean if you sniff a pack of unlit cigarettes, there is a smell or odor too but its a much different odor when it's from actual smoke. |
Originally Posted by hwichlaz: People do it where I am but it seems they do not do it or want to smell of it - especially in front of their children. If it is legal I would send a note to all families saying you do not want the odor of smoke of any kind (marijuna, vaping or cigarette smoke, etc.) in the area children are in. |
Originally Posted by Blackcat31: When used to stimulate appetite or for pain....it usually stinks. Depending on delivery method. When used topically for joint pain....it reeks. |
Originally Posted by hwichlaz: The epilepsy is a rare form so maybe the difference ? I don't know. I just know I've never smelled anything on the child or family. In MN medical cannabis is provided to patients as a liquid, pill, topical or vaporized delivery method that does not require the use of dried leaves or plant form. |
Originally Posted by Blackcat31: OP did you talk to the parent? |
Originally Posted by Blackcat31: |
I also have to say....if I as legally using cannibas, and my CCP turned me in for it without ever even asking me about the odor...the lack of trust would send me elsewhere. Trust goes both ways. The OP hasn’t mentioned any other issues with the family that would lead her to believe neglect or abuse might be an issue.
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Originally Posted by hwichlaz: fwiw~ that wasn't scientific research....:p just a bunch of googling and reading on a medical marijuana forum board. :D Originally Posted by hwichlaz: ...and to clarify, I did not advise OP to report. I only said that I would IF I suspected the parent was smoking. Smoking marijuana in my state is illegal. If I suspected medicinal use via legal methods, I wouldn't report. |
Originally Posted by hwichlaz: Originally Posted by hwichlaz: What parents do in their free time is none of my business, unless it harms the child. I looked up a mandated reporters responsibilty and this is all it says on substance abuse " chronic and severe use of alcohol or a controlled substance by a parent or person responsible for the care of the child that adversely affects the child's basic needs and safety; ... or prenatal exposure." If the parent smoking affects the childs basic needs and safety, then yes report! Otherwise.. Like I said before, approach the parent. Maybe let them know that you are a smoke free zone and the smell of smoke from their child is bothering you and the children. They will probably be so embarrassed they will be more careful. I agree that your house smelling of smoke could be a liability because DHS may think its you and that would affect your license. |
Another issue is the parent using then driving with the child in the car? No different than drinking and driving. Since it has become legal in my state the number of DUI's have gone up.
I have never been around it nor know what it smells like. I'm thinking though if it's in the child's clothing, hair, and the parents there probably is a lot of smoking going on around that child. Would it affect the child in anyway being around all the smoke? Does the smell wash out or is it like cigarette smoke where it stays in your clothes? I'm wondering if a child went to school smelling like this if the teacher would meet with the parents about it? Especially if it started smelling the classroom up? |
Originally Posted by Blackcat31: |
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Originally Posted by WBee: I think not caring for the smell is reasonable. So you don’t want someone you are giving close personal care to all day to stink. That’s an appropriate thing to bring up with a parent. What liability do you feel it’s causing you if an adult smells of it? People who smoke it regularly smell like it even when they aren’t smoking. So odor is no indication of intoxication. |
OO yea i wouldn't want my home smelling suspicious. I've had parents come in and smell cigarette smoke on a diaper bag and comment to me. and i don't smoke. so yea that would be an issue. Legally id be required to report it to licensing maybe id talk to my licensor first so it wasn't so formal just things would get real serious real quick.
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Originally Posted by BrynleeJean: |
It’s legal in my state. Medical and personal use. I would call licensing to check what you should do.
Personally I think it fine to pertake - as long as you are treating it like booze. To me (because it’s legal here) it’s no different then drinking. If you are smoking a joint (or high by other means) and driving with your child (or without honesty) I’ll be making a phone call. I know people who have greatly benefited from it. As long as people are being safe and responsible then good for them. |
It's legal here so I wouldn't make a stink about it. Chances are the parent is probably a grower and that is why the smell is so strong. I know too many people that use it and have normal productive lives so unless you see some indication or abuse or neglect there isn't anything to report. You can terminate them for stinking if it is a major issue.
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Originally Posted by Tigerlilly: |
Originally Posted by Blackcat31: Nope, it's not illegal in Minnesota to smoke in a car with a child. They tried to pass it but they can't control what your doing in your personal property. You can't smoke with your daycare kids in the car, but that's a whole other situation. I am not a smoker, I used to be. I hate when people spread around misinformation. https://smoking.uslegal.com/smoking-...-in-minnesota/ |
Originally Posted by WBee: Fyi: I had to do the same for rose scented essential oils recently too. A person can only take so much. The local middle school has an Axe body spray ban, too. :lol::lol: |
Originally Posted by MelissaP: Law or not, it's still not a very healthy or appropriate thing to do in my honest opinion. |
Originally Posted by Blackcat31: I saw a very pregnant woman smoking a cigerette and wanted to slap it out of her hand. I just cant believe people. |
Originally Posted by MomBoss: |
Originally Posted by Cat Herder: LMAO at the Axe ban. Our schools have an essential oil ban. Teachers sending kids home due to odor. I have the same ban. Eucalyptus, peppermint, lemongrass, tea tree, lavendar,etc ALL on the same day (different kids) OH MY. Everyone's clothes got bagged, everyone had a 'ho bath' and parents were told NO MORE that day. |
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Originally Posted by Blackcat31: Melissa |
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