Potty Training Question
So before I start preschool next month, I am helping a family out with potty training. I love potty training, don't ask me why because I have no idea. :lol:
Anyway, I have hit a bump in the road. He is doing amazing, tells me every time he pees and usually a split second before he goes. He understands all the important parts, but it just feels like we can't get over this last hump. He doesn't "let it go" on command. I believe he realizes he has to go, so he will sit on the toilet, but nothing happens. He also will hold it for 2-3 hours. Any tips to get him over this last hump? Most kids I potty train, it takes 2-3 days... a week at most. It has been a week today and he's 90% there, but we just need to get him the last chunk. And both parents are 100% committed and doing great working with me, so no issues there. |
Put Cheerios in the toilet water and let him try to sink them. Sometimes that relaxes them enough to let them concentrate on something other than holding it.
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Originally Posted by Michael: This is about the 10th kid I've potty trained (all but 2 were boys) but he just can't get over this last hurdle. |
any advice for the stubborn child?
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I have no advice. I haven't potty trained a child since my own were young 25+ years ago. :ouch:
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I put them on the toilet and step outside the bathroom. I think it’s a lot of pressure on a child to go while we’re standing there watching. I usually say, “I’m going to go do xyz in the other room. I’ll be back in a minute.” Then I just step right outside the door, out of sight. They usually go then!
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Originally Posted by flying_babyb: Originally Posted by Blackcat31: Originally Posted by Rockgirl: |
What if you sang a song? If he realizes he has to go, but is intentionally holding it and not releasing when sitting on the toilet, maybe singing a song would help distract him so he goes?
If that doesn't work, what about food coloring in the toilet water? If you add red or blue food coloring to the toilet water it will change color when peed on. Maybe that would encourage him to let go? |
Originally Posted by Baby Beluga: After he does pee, we sing "It's potty time" by Patty Shukla (pretty sure she's his best friend) and that encourages him. He would LOVE the food coloring trick, but he has a potty chair that makes a noise when he pees, so there's no liquid in there before hand. Update: We hit our "aha moment" today!- Day 11! No accidents, asked to go potty each time, and has FINALLY learned to empty his bladder! He had a tiny dribble, ran to the potty and finished up. During lunch he asked to get down and told me he had to poop. Didn't end up pooping but did empty his bladder again! Really hoping he keeps this up at home over the next 3 days, his mom is feeling a bit discouraged at home, but is pushing through! He is 21 months, says about 35 words, but none of those are bathroom related. He signs (ASL) about 150 words, so he can sign pee, poop, potty and accident, as well as help and please 😃 |
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