Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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![]() Here, if they were throwing toys, they’d get one soft toy to play with, alone. After a set time of not throwing, they’d get a chance to play normally. Repeat. |
Forum: Book Club - Reviews / Suggestions
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() Right! And the mommy message boards & blogs tell them to do these things. |
Forum: Book Club - Reviews / Suggestions
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Rockgirl
![]() I started reading it last night, and was excited to see my town and nearby ones in the story! |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I’d be leaning toward terming, too! If you don’t want to term, you could completely ignore her at the front door....even hang a sign on it, stating, “Daycare families, use back door”. Is there a door... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I had to laugh, too! “I hope you got bullied in school” |
Forum: Book Club - Reviews / Suggestions
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Rockgirl
![]() Oh, I love her books! Thanks for the recommendation—I’ll definitely read it. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I wasn’t the one saying there shouldn’t be daycares in residential areas....I have one, myself. :) |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() Most people here work an 8-5 day, or at least the office-type jobs, so my hours really just allow for commuting. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I guess I’m not very accommodating. :D Anything outside my operating hours of M-F, 7:30-5:30 is a no-go. When I was younger, I gave a little more in this area. Now it’s way easier to say no. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I sympathize, and agree that your neighbor’s daycare noise does sound excessive, but we’re not all like that. I don’t allow screaming, even outside. Outside voices, yes. Screaming, no. |
Forum: New Members - Welcome to the Daycare.com Forum!
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Rockgirl
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() OP stated that the biter sometimes just walks up and bites a child unprovoked. I wouldn’t term a child for a first bite, but I said I would term a habitual biter....especially one who did it... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I get that it’s developmentally normal, but I would absolutely terminate a habitual biter. I do what’s best for my group, and a biter isn’t good for my group. I can’t imagine telling the parents of a... |
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Rockgirl
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Rockgirl
![]() Maybe the child is ready to use the potty, and is telling you they need to poop? |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I’ve been curious about it, too! I usually buy the Colorations tempera, but it dries so dull and sometimes flaky, depending on the surface painted on. Hoping to see if Bio Color is worth the money. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() 4-year-old: “That was so fun when we did the tomato drill.” Another 4-year-old: “It’s not TOMATO. It’s termaydo. Say it: TER-MAY-DO.” |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() Slapping a baby across the face would be a no-go here. I would term. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() Hi—I’m in Texas! Nowhere near Austin, but I’m still happy to help with questions. :) |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() We have a portable Bose sound dock—I Bluetooth my phone to it and listen to Pandora or an Apple Music playlist. We rarely ever listen to children’s music, because I can’t handle it. Lol. We... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() No two weeks’ notice here, either. When we’re done, we’re done. Even if it’s abrupt, though it rarely is. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I don’t allow children to attend unless parents have paid for the week in advance, so I don’t see myself ever needing to take anyone to court. Seems like a huge hassle! |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() How nice of him! That sounds delicious. We do taco Tuesday here, too. My carne asada is currently marinating in the fridge for tonight. :) |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I keep hearing ‘The Queen’s Gambit’ on Netflix is really good, so that’s next on my list. I highly recommend (although it is NOT family-friendly) ‘The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel’ on Amazon. There’s so... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() You’ve gotten some good suggestions. I honestly can’t imagine letting my daycare children scream at the top of their lungs, since we do live in town, with neighbors close by. Outside voices, yes,... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I would be stressed to the max! Hope it’s all resolved quickly. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() Of course not. I suggested that coming in as a new (I think) poster and replying just the word “Wrong” may not have been the best way to get your point across. I was replying to the comment about... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I think replying simply with “Wrong” set a negative tone, in the first place. People here seem to be open to hearing others’ views, but coming into the conversation in that manner puts people on the... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I wouldn’t wait for them to take the invoice or acknowledge it....I would hand it to them and let them know they will not be allowed to drop the child off until it is paid. And stick to it! |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() My under-twos use take & toss cups—the ones with a regular straw, and I buy disposable straws. I’ve been running the cups through the dishwasher for years. Twos and up use an open cup. I do like... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I wouldn’t even say “Let us know if any policies are a problem for you”.....that suggests there can be adaptations made for them. I think Cat Herder worded it perfectly above. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I have a boy named Zeke in my daycare. While we’re outside, I spend time walking laps around the yard for exercise. The kids were running around playing hide and seek, and as I made a lap, I walked... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I have a dcd just like this! It mostly involves my holidays. I’ve given him 3 separate copies of my holiday schedule, and they’ve been here two years, so should know by now. Nope....Friday of Labor... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() :D Sometimes acknowledging it makes it go downhill! Lol! |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() My daycare kids don’t use paper towels for drying hands. I buy large bundles of washcloths from Walmart....they’re stacked in a basket on the bathroom counter. They take one and dry their hands, then... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() That would be a hard pass for me. Don’t worry about your friend being upset....you’re the one who would be dealing with the child. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() You could wait until a little later, call it ‘snack’ and still serve the breakfast components. :D |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I’m personally not into the “cutesy” names, but if you love it, that’s what matters! |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I serve the food to everyone...it’s up to them whether they eat or not. I can’t withhold food just because they normally don’t eat it. |
Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() That was thoughtful of your daycare provider! Even a nice card would go a long way to show your appreciation. If you’re wanting to do more, maybe a gift card or plant. :) |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Forum: Daycare Menus, Breakfast, Lunch and Snack Ideas
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Rockgirl
![]() Quality control (that’s me...I’m quality control) tried them, and they really were pretty good! :D |
Forum: Daycare Menus, Breakfast, Lunch and Snack Ideas
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Rockgirl
![]() I made these for the first time today, and they were a huge hit! My group loves regular cheese quesadillas, so we have them fairly often. Yesterday, my grandson (4) was telling me his dad makes pizza... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() There’s a YouTube video of Samuel L. Jackson reading the first one. It is GOLD! |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I’ve also randomly handed out stickers during circle time to the ones who had good behavior the previous day at pickup time. Of course I made a big deal out of saying the stickers were only for the... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I would just gradually sit a bit farther away from him each day. He will eventually adjust. I know it’s difficult, though! |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() If dcm needs to show proof that her child was sick, she should get a doctor’s note, not a note from daycare. A daycare provider can’t verify the child was actually ill, just that they didn’t attend... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() My fee is hefty...$2/minute. I don’t want the extra money....I want them to pick up on time. The fee is definitely a deterrent! |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I did that a few times before changing my stance on that. They never show up when they say they will! It only took a few nap times of children sitting and waiting....and waiting. Now I tell them,... |
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() Did you get the job at the other daycare you applied at? I remember you posting about that. OP, not trying to be rude, but you’ve posted repeatedly for months, asking what to do about this. Each... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() Just give plenty of notice and take a day. You don’t owe parents an explanation as to what the day is for. I stopped worrying a long time ago about their opinions of what I do with my time outside of... |
Forum: Daycare Menus, Breakfast, Lunch and Snack Ideas
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Rockgirl
![]() I noticed you’re new here. Welcome to the forum. Maybe starting off with “this is bad” isn’t the best way to introduce yourself. :) This thread is actually about preparing breakfast for our... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I put them on the toilet and step outside the bathroom. I think it’s a lot of pressure on a child to go while we’re standing there watching. I usually say, “I’m going to go do xyz in the other room.... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() Is there a local daycare association? That’s how we get the word around here about things like that. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() Thanks for the replies! Sounds like I’m good to keep doing as I have been. I’ve been doing daycare for a long time, but I haven’t had this come up with a child his age, to this extent. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I don’t mean toddlers who are just learning. Dcb, age 4, constantly says things like, “Her’s going to play with me.”.....”Let’s pick we’re toys up.”....”He ate him’s snack.” Etc. I’ve been... |
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I don’t read much into what kids say. It could’ve been that dcm said something like, “This sunscreen isn’t coming off easily.” And dck took it to mean dcm was mad. I’ve learned to just not worry... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I’m in Texas....I know more people who carry than not. As BC stated, people who are legally carrying have been through a licensing process. Honestly, I feel safer knowing responsible gun owners are... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() You’re giving plenty of notice. Parents who enroll their children in a home daycare should either have reliable backup care or a flexible work schedule. There’s nothing to apologize for. Enjoy your... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() Yes, I got an email Friday afternoon. It’s true—all restrictions have been lifted. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() So far it’s good! I really liked ‘Run Away’ by him. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I just started “The Boy From the Woods” by Harlan Coben. I’ve been listening to my books on Audible, so I can knit at the same time. |
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I wouldn’t worry about her saying things to people. If they know her well enough to take her at her word, chances are they’ve met her child, and seen the behavior. I would suggest informing your... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I wouldn’t have made it past infancy with this child! What does dcm do that terrifies you? I’d give notice and be done. This doesn’t create a healthy environment for the other children, or... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I’ve minimized the toys available to the children. I’ve been running some through the dishwasher on the sanitize cycle. Others, I wash, then spray with Odoban. I’ve been walking around with... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I may continue this way, even after the requirements are lifted! :D Parents are texting me when they pull up outside, and I’m meeting them at the door with their child. BUH-BYE, now! |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() In Texas, we’re now required to check every child’s temp upon arrival, and parents may not come inside, unless there’s a legitimate reason. All drop offs and pickups must be done outside. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I was sending kids to potty one at a time, before we headed outside. The ones waiting their turn were getting shoes out of their cubbies. Me: “Let’s sing some songs while we get ready to go... |
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Rockgirl
![]() Funny how so many non-providers are experts on running a daycare! :D I think I’ll go find a few message boards pertaining to other professions and inform the posters what they’re doing wrong at their... |
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Rockgirl
![]() Some kids won’t go if someone is right there watching them on the toilet. I find they’ll go if I step out of the room....I guess the pressure is off. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I put a section into my written policies, addressing this. They know from the beginning how I expect pickup to be. Or, say, “Sorry—I haven’t had a chance to use the restroom for hours—gotta go!”... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() My group is SUPER into preschool board games. It does help that 5 out of my 6 are within six months of each other, age-wise. The favorite has been Zingo for quite awhile now. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I’ve heard of so many pediatricians who say everything looks fine. Honestly, I don’t think they typically spend enough time interacting with the children to really see what’s going on. |
Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I don’t see it in the regs for centers in Texas. It’s not in the regs for homes. I clean mine daily during nap, and if I have a spare minute I’ll do a quick swipe with a disinfecting wipe at other... |
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Rockgirl
![]() I’ve had the Sprogs stackable cots a little over a year, and have been happy with them. I bought them on Amazon in a pack of six. |
Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I’m seeing that now—you’re right. However, if they’re just spraying with Lysol, and not cleaning first, they’re still not following procedures. I do agree about the disposable seat covers. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() We’ve had a few providers have a sale when they retired. They informed the providers in our local daycare association, and they were allowed to go shop first, then the public. |
Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() Right! And it leaves a lot of things open for interpretation by the licensing reps. One may be fine with something, and next time another will write a provider up for it. |
Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() Here are the state guidelines for sanitizing surfaces. Oddly, the procedure for cleaning a toilet isn’t specifically mentioned. I’m guessing your child’s daycare is doing this on their own. I’m... |
Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
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Rockgirl
![]() I’m in Texas. I’m not sure why they’re using Lysol....like Cat Herder said above, it’s not an approved method of cleaning/disinfecting toilet seats. It seems they could at least wipe the toilet... |
Forum: Book Club - Reviews / Suggestions
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Rockgirl
![]() I like Discount School Supply and Constructive Playthings. Also Amazon! |
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Rockgirl
![]() I prep as much as I can ahead of time. This goes for everything, all day. During daycare, while kids are doing one activity, I’m getting things ready for their next activity. Our dinners aren’t... |
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Rockgirl
![]() I have Sprogs stackable cots and the sheets that fit over the corners. I’ve been very happy with them. I have a strict rule of no standing on the cots—only sitting or lying down on them, so jumping... |
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Rockgirl
![]() We subscribe to Apple Music, so that’s mostly what I use here. I also have several Pandora stations I like for daycare hours. I was paying the $4.99/month for the ad-free version until we started... |
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Rockgirl
![]() I would require a doctor visit and signed release to return to daycare. That doesn’t sound like something I’d want to just wait and see on! |
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Rockgirl
![]() Crocodile Rock Kung Fu Fighting I’m Still Standing The soundtrack from the Trolls movie is a favorite here, too. |
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Rockgirl
![]() I’m in Texas, too! There used to be a center here called the Tiny Texan. I thought that was cute. Of course in West Texas, anything tumbleweed related would be appropriate. Lol |