Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-23-2013, 09:06 AM
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Replies: 22
Views: 3,512
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-23-2013, 09:04 AM
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Replies: 22
Views: 3,512
I had a child on the spectrum. The parents had...
I had a child on the spectrum. The parents had no idea as it was their only child and they thought her behavior was "normal". I spoke with them a few times about it and then one day told them that...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-23-2013, 08:15 AM
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Replies: 25
Views: 3,550
I have had many children do this through the...
I have had many children do this through the years....task avoidance. I just let them know that I'm so sorry they are feeling poorly and they can lay down for the day. I bring them to the table to...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-23-2013, 08:09 AM
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,854
Thanks for your understanding and recognizing...
Thanks for your understanding and recognizing that we can love each child and all of their unique characteristics and not be thrilled with others. I am super excited!!!! My cousin died recently and...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-22-2013, 02:50 PM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,698
It bothers me to see parents dressing their...
It bothers me to see parents dressing their children in clothes that don't fit and to me sending them without a coat or shoes is not acceptable at all.
I let parents know that shoes and coat are...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-22-2013, 02:20 PM
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,556
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-22-2013, 02:06 PM
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,854
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-22-2013, 01:36 PM
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,854
This Can't Be Over Soon Enough. Rant Warning
It feels like this month until I close is going at a snails pace. I am reminded every day why I am closing. Six more working days left for me and it feels like a lifetime. I now notice more than...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-22-2013, 01:11 PM
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Replies: 17
Views: 3,321
Exactly. I always explain that to my parents...
Exactly. I always explain that to my parents during the interview process and let them know in the beginning to give a kiss, hug and leave.....quick like a bandaid. I have my childcare area gated...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-22-2013, 11:09 AM
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Replies: 13
Views: 2,242
I had a parent like this who didn't recognize...
I had a parent like this who didn't recognize their child's lack of sleep as an issue for the child. I finally termed after trying to work with them for three months. It was so relaxing when they...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-21-2013, 01:58 PM
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Replies: 22
Views: 3,762
I have a child like that. The parents have...
I have a child like that. The parents have little boundaries and the child is very high strung as a result. He drives me crazy. My saving grace is that my last day running my day home is Oct 30...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-21-2013, 01:39 PM
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Replies: 10
Views: 2,079
I use Milk of Magnesia. Diaper rash is often...
I use Milk of Magnesia. Diaper rash is often caused by acid in the urine and feces. Even when wiped clean, the acid remains on the skin. I put the magnesia on the rash area and leave it for half...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-21-2013, 01:36 PM
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Replies: 13
Views: 2,270
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-03-2013, 02:33 PM
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Replies: 3
Views: 1,253
Ya really. I am not out of work gratefully. I...
Ya really. I am not out of work gratefully. I am a business consultant for the government to help dayhomes and daycares in my area that are having trouble with finance, HR, programming, boards and...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-03-2013, 10:59 AM
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Replies: 41
Views: 6,364
My husband and I used to run my day home...
My husband and I used to run my day home together. I had one parent let me know that she wasn't comfortable with that. When I asked her why she mentioned that she wasn't okay with a man caring for...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-03-2013, 10:46 AM
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Replies: 3
Views: 1,253
The Countdown To Closing Is On!!!!
I finally gave all my parents notice that I am closing after eight years. I was supposed to do it months ago, but I felt terrible for my parents so I put it off. I can't believe I am going to be...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-30-2013, 06:01 PM
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Replies: 29
Views: 5,885
I don't remind parents or babysit them to get...
I don't remind parents or babysit them to get payment. I have the last month's deposit already for every family. I obtain that the second month of care after signing the permanent contract once the...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-30-2013, 05:56 PM
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Replies: 25
Views: 2,871
Mine is $50.00 payable before care resumes. ...
Mine is $50.00 payable before care resumes. Three times of late payments and the family is termed. If a parent came to me to communicate they needed to pay a few days late I don't charge the fee. ...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-30-2013, 05:49 PM
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Replies: 14
Views: 2,910
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-20-2013, 11:09 PM
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Replies: 174
Views: 27,278
I decided to close recently. I am tired of...
I decided to close recently. I am tired of parents over the last eight years. I want my home to be my own, not have to answer to parents for who is in my home and what I choose to do with it.
...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-24-2013, 03:39 PM
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Replies: 27
Views: 6,371
I will not support a parent in their quest to...
I will not support a parent in their quest to push their child to potty teach before they are ready. It is obvious this particular child isn't ready.
I usually tell them nicely that their child...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-22-2013, 08:20 AM
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Replies: 11
Views: 4,753
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-21-2013, 10:23 PM
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Replies: 20
Views: 2,425
Where I live, there are no regulations at all...
Where I live, there are no regulations at all regarding rest/nap times. I could have a baby up all day if I wanted to. :confused: I don't blame it on anyone. Their child lives exhausted and as a...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-21-2013, 05:55 PM
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Replies: 20
Views: 2,425
Yes, I gave them the reason. I just let them...
Yes, I gave them the reason. I just let them know basically that their passive aggressive comments and the chaos the situation has caused are not how I want to start my day every day. They have...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-20-2013, 03:11 AM
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Replies: 20
Views: 2,425
I left them their termination notice, tax...
I left them their termination notice, tax receipt and post dates cheques in an envelope for them. Their last day was to be May 31. They prepaid for their last month so I let them know I would...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-19-2013, 09:47 AM
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Replies: 77
Views: 9,220
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-19-2013, 09:16 AM
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Replies: 20
Views: 2,425
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-19-2013, 09:08 AM
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Replies: 22
Views: 3,006
I have had a child like that. The parents left...
I have had a child like that. The parents left as I chose to take my day home full time and they didn't want to pay for full time for their two children. The son is just fine. He just needs strong...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-19-2013, 09:03 AM
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Replies: 20
Views: 2,425
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-19-2013, 09:02 AM
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Replies: 20
Views: 2,425
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-19-2013, 08:39 AM
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Replies: 20
Views: 2,425
Nap Saga Parents On Their Way Out
I have written the termination letter to the parents and will have it to them at the end of the day.
Yesterday their little one slept at rest time as she just couldn't stay awake. She slept for...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-17-2013, 08:45 AM
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Replies: 31
Views: 3,009
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-17-2013, 08:31 AM
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Replies: 42
Views: 5,865
I encourage parent involvement often.
I...
I encourage parent involvement often.
I will create a little project for them to take home and do with the child and return.
They come on field trips, but the trip destinations, dates and...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-17-2013, 08:22 AM
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,033
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-17-2013, 08:14 AM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,550
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-17-2013, 08:05 AM
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Replies: 106
Views: 14,261
This is exactly how I work it. If I am going...
This is exactly how I work it. If I am going somewhere other than my back yard the parents are alerted before hand.
I personally would be upset if I was the parent in your case. I would find it...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-12-2013, 06:37 PM
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Replies: 14
Views: 2,633
Just a thought.....when parents come to my day...
Just a thought.....when parents come to my day home we have an initial 30 day contract. That allows me to term if I have figured out in the first 30 days they were less than accurate about their...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-12-2013, 06:27 PM
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Replies: 23
Views: 2,847
My son went to public school until the end of...
My son went to public school until the end of grade 3. We removed him for various reasons and after seeing his work come home we are grateful we did.
In the beginning it was hard as he hated...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-10-2013, 10:02 AM
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Replies: 77
Views: 9,220
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-08-2013, 05:19 PM
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Replies: 18
Views: 2,058
We started watching tv shows about bullying,...
We started watching tv shows about bullying, reading multiple books and discussing different ways of handling it without having to be the wuss of the group.
We started Tae Kwon do classes at five...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-08-2013, 03:55 PM
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,203
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-08-2013, 03:37 PM
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Replies: 38
Views: 4,113
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-08-2013, 03:34 PM
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Replies: 14
Views: 2,025
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-08-2013, 03:32 PM
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Replies: 18
Views: 2,058
I think by the time a child is old enough and...
I think by the time a child is old enough and required to defend themselves they are no longer a part of my day home. There is a time to teach a child to defend themselves and how to handle conflict...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-08-2013, 03:27 PM
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Replies: 4
Views: 1,086
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-08-2013, 03:16 PM
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Replies: 32
Views: 5,120
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-08-2013, 03:12 PM
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Replies: 18
Views: 2,058
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-08-2013, 03:08 PM
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,203
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-05-2013, 10:24 AM
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,203
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-05-2013, 09:26 AM
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,203
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-05-2013, 08:49 AM
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Replies: 39
Views: 4,321
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-05-2013, 08:45 AM
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,203
Nap Saga Continues
So mom drops off daughter yesterday with the child in hysterics. In the last two years this has not been the norm at all. When I ask her what is going on, she shares that the child cries at bedtime...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-05-2013, 08:21 AM
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,416
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-03-2013, 04:10 PM
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Replies: 22
Views: 3,461
My day home parents have to sign an...
My day home parents have to sign an acknowledgement in the parent handbook that no pictures of the day home children will be put on their facebook page and it is grounds for immediate termination as...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-03-2013, 04:00 PM
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Replies: 341
Views: 38,127
I agree with this post and the part of civil...
I agree with this post and the part of civil union. I also have another view on it which may not be so popular. I do have an issue with gay couples raising children. I have seen many children of...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-26-2013, 08:15 AM
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Replies: 23
Views: 3,425
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-26-2013, 08:12 AM
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Replies: 29
Views: 3,165
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-26-2013, 08:03 AM
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,956
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-19-2013, 09:02 AM
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Replies: 11
Views: 3,053
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-19-2013, 08:24 AM
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Replies: 11
Views: 3,053
I agree completely. My only issue is that mom...
I agree completely. My only issue is that mom comes in every morning sharing with me how bad the child slept the night before because she napped here the day before. I am getting tired of the...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-19-2013, 08:14 AM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,359
In my sick policy it states that if a child's...
In my sick policy it states that if a child's nose has to be wiped more than once every five minutes, they must go home. If a child is sent home from care they cannot return for 48 hours.
I would...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-19-2013, 08:02 AM
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Replies: 11
Views: 3,053
Child Won't Sleep At Home
I have a family that has been with me for quite some time. They are one of my favorite families.
Their 2.5 year old daughter won't sleep at night. She just keeps herself awake playing and falls...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-07-2013, 04:24 PM
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,960
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-07-2013, 03:35 PM
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,960
Separated Parents and Paperwork
I have a 22 yr old very mature single father in my day home. He came to me a about two weeks ago with an amazing 1 yr old girl that he had just traveled 3000 miles to get, after the mother basically...
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Forum: Daycare Menus, Breakfast, Lunch and Snack Ideas
12-20-2012, 11:52 AM
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Replies: 15
Views: 4,893
I don't hide anything. I provide them a...
I don't hide anything. I provide them a tablespoon of each item on their plate, not too much so I am confident they can eat it. They would have to be visibly sick if they weren't able to eat it. ...
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Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
12-20-2012, 11:08 AM
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Replies: 8
Views: 3,401
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Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
12-20-2012, 11:05 AM
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Replies: 27
Views: 8,951
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-20-2012, 10:44 AM
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Replies: 13
Views: 2,851
I am so saddened to hear of your situation. It...
I am so saddened to hear of your situation. It can be so difficult financially relying on a day home and extremely stressful.
I hired an aid to help me when my husband had difficulties with his...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-20-2012, 10:36 AM
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Replies: 26
Views: 3,298
I had an electronic door lock installed a few...
I had an electronic door lock installed a few years ago. It automatically locks the door three seconds after it is closed. It is locked after each parent comes in and leaves.
I would never leave...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-18-2012, 07:06 PM
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Replies: 61
Views: 6,776
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-18-2012, 06:53 PM
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Replies: 33
Views: 3,344
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-18-2012, 06:47 PM
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,598
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-18-2012, 06:25 PM
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Replies: 1
Views: 985
I realize this doesn't sound real nice, but...
I realize this doesn't sound real nice, but working for a boss that doesn't recognize that our children are priority is a choice.
Allowing our work to dictate what kind of parents we are going to...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-18-2012, 05:24 PM
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Replies: 99
Views: 18,102
I charge $800 per month regardless of age for...
I charge $800 per month regardless of age for full time as that is all I do. I live in an area where incomes are significant so all is well there. I am on the higher end where I live for day homes....
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-18-2012, 05:11 PM
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Replies: 98
Views: 17,482
If the baby needed to eat so be it. If the...
If the baby needed to eat so be it. If the mother was to put a receiving blanket over her or something I wouldn't care one bit if it was in the same room as the day home. If other parents were...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-18-2012, 05:04 PM
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Replies: 129
Views: 22,985
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Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
10-26-2012, 11:52 AM
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Replies: 90
Views: 13,706
So then why are you posting here any further. ...
So then why are you posting here any further. You seem to have decided your pov before you even came on here. Seems to me that you are looking for providers to cosign your thought processes.
In...
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Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
10-26-2012, 11:21 AM
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Replies: 85
Views: 30,620
I have three mini dachshunds, one pit mix, one...
I have three mini dachshunds, one pit mix, one cat, two snakes, one bearded dragon and two leopard gekos. I used to have one whole floor of reptiles ranging from chameleons to basilisks to tegus.
...
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Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
10-25-2012, 03:15 PM
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Replies: 90
Views: 13,706
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-25-2012, 02:58 PM
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Replies: 4
Views: 2,565
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-25-2012, 02:54 PM
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Replies: 27
Views: 3,926
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-25-2012, 02:17 PM
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Replies: 3
Views: 1,124
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-25-2012, 02:00 PM
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Replies: 183
Views: 63,167
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-25-2012, 08:21 AM
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Replies: 60
Views: 11,153
I so identify with you. My husband just changed...
I so identify with you. My husband just changed his shift at work so he could be here helping me more with the day home for now till I close. That has been helpful for me not feeling like all I do...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-24-2012, 01:56 PM
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Replies: 32
Views: 3,272
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-24-2012, 01:44 PM
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Replies: 60
Views: 11,153
I used to have this same exact issue with my...
I used to have this same exact issue with my husband. It took me some time to figure out that it wasn't my day home he didn't have respect for....it was me, what I did, what I thought, felt and...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-24-2012, 01:29 PM
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Replies: 32
Views: 3,272
Yup, I have done this in the past and it worked...
Yup, I have done this in the past and it worked perfectly. Also, if I have a child that has gone for a week without eating anything here, I will implement the sick theory. Since they are unwilling...
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Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
10-24-2012, 01:15 PM
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Replies: 32
Views: 6,277
I have had this issue with many, many children...
I have had this issue with many, many children when the first came to me. I put a very small amount of food on their plate, something I KNOW they can eat unless they are sick. I serve all the food...
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Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
10-24-2012, 01:02 PM
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Replies: 52
Views: 9,219
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-10-2012, 08:06 AM
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Replies: 2
Views: 1,390
Random outbursts
I have a 2.5 year old girl who has been with me for over a year. This young girl started screaming randomly over the past week. Several times a day, she will just burst out in tears and screams in...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-05-2012, 02:22 PM
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Replies: 16
Views: 2,590
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-04-2012, 10:19 AM
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Replies: 4
Views: 2,182
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-02-2012, 11:50 AM
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Replies: 4
Views: 2,182
14 Months Old Biting
I have a little 14 month old guy who keeps biting other children. His sister used to be a biter when she was about 2. Both children seem to require oral pressure when they have an overwhelming...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
09-29-2012, 09:17 PM
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Replies: 22
Views: 11,197
I just reworded my illness policy. Basically if...
I just reworded my illness policy. Basically if a child has a clear runny nose, they are welcome to come to care. If it is running like a tap and I can't maintain it while caring for other children...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
09-29-2012, 11:34 AM
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Replies: 22
Views: 2,821
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
09-29-2012, 11:30 AM
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,594
I reported it in the past to social services as...
I reported it in the past to social services as neglect....a failure to meet the child's needs. Social services intervened and aided in educating the parent as to the seriousness of the situation. ...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
09-29-2012, 11:23 AM
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Replies: 32
Views: 4,333
I would never ask a parent to pay for something...
I would never ask a parent to pay for something their child broke while in my care. They have no ability to intervene while they are not there. I believe it is my job as a provider to prevent those...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
09-28-2012, 09:32 PM
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,594
I believe it is my responsibility to ensure the...
I believe it is my responsibility to ensure the child's needs are met if I have knowledge they are not currently. I would report it if the parent was not willing to do anything. A few months of no...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
09-28-2012, 09:20 PM
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Replies: 6
Views: 2,144
This exactly. I just reworded my policy thanks...
This exactly. I just reworded my policy thanks to Blackcat and my worst family gave notice. All my other families are awesome, so sick kids are no longer. This is unacceptable. I let my families...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
09-27-2012, 08:28 PM
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,332
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