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laundrymom
![]() “I will wake them when you pull in the drive. Please wait for me to come out of the garage door. Do not walk to the door and knock. They will need a blanket for you to wrap around them as I grab them... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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laundrymom
![]() I suggest playing with him instead of talking to him. Try to become his ally. Like the three yr old. And what milestone assessment are you using? Or is it just the peds checklist that mom reports to... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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laundrymom
![]() I offer a discount if they pay on time. kind of. Like. Say my base rate is $500 a week. It’s not. Lol. But just play along. If they pay on time, by noon on Friday I only charge $500. If they... |
Forum: Daycare and Taxes
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laundrymom
![]() And now hes saying I gave them an EIN not a FID Yes, I texted a pic of the google answer to Whats a FID number Shocker, an EIN number. deep breaths. deep breaths. You dont have to deal w them... |
Forum: Daycare and Taxes
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laundrymom
![]() and now... I'll take a quick look at the forum..... (I know Ill emerge three hours later. lol) |
Forum: Daycare and Taxes
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laundrymom
![]() A peach, yeah. We'll go w that. A peach. I only have one left at home who grads this spring. The three oldest have gotten their own sinks to keep clean and fridges to fill. |
Forum: Daycare and Taxes
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laundrymom
![]() Nice to see you, as well. I hoped you'd still be here. I'm thinking of "I provided mom with EIN as she was parent who contracted care." Which was a nightmare as she texted me on a friday morning... |
Forum: Daycare and Taxes
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laundrymom
![]() Bowing to the great and mighty Mr. Copeland. (Who we all should get together and send away for a vacation cruise after tax season each year, just sayin) I will respond this way. Thank you. |
Forum: Daycare and Taxes
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laundrymom
![]() I've been limiting my social media time to spend with my sweet grandson! I swear, this is so much better than raising kids! Haha. I never knew I could love someone as much as I do him. And he lives... |
Forum: Daycare and Taxes
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laundrymom
![]() I've been gone for quite some time but I promise, I was an active member. Not a troll. lol I have a family that I termed on bad terms in december. They wanted me to go against state policy and I... |
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laundrymom
![]() Look her right in the eye. Stare her down. And say... "Julie, every single day I make sure the children potty right before they are picked up. I am certain she can stay dry in the car. Every day when... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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laundrymom
![]() I love that I only accept cash payments. In advance. Lol |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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laundrymom
![]() I have one. BARKING in lue of nap today because it got him candy last night when he was dressed as a dog. I have one who picked up her plate. Held it out to her side. And dumped it on the floor.... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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laundrymom
![]() I already have it scheduled as a paid personal day. I am not doing today ever again. Day after trick or treat is NO TREAT!! |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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laundrymom
![]() I would also wash everyone's hands immediately at arrival. And do more hands off activities. Stay up and away as much as possible. Do loads of relaxed play. And clean like a mad person. Lol. ... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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laundrymom
![]() This. If an infant keeps scratching her face I put socks on her hands |
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laundrymom
![]() "Well then little snowflake, you should start eatig the things I write on your sheet so daddy is happier with you" |
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laundrymom
![]() I would stop bottle until after lunch. And offer milk in a cup all other times. At 12 mo I'd stop bottle too. |
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laundrymom
![]() I have heard this but why is baby taking so much Med? |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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laundrymom
![]() I would just send notice that he is to be there before 5:30 or care is terminated immediately if it's that huge a deal to you. I haven't had anyone disrespect me like that in the past 20-25 years... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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laundrymom
![]() "Oh, Jerry!" Called from the door. "I'll tell junior you are here while you move your car so the drive isn't blocked." And go inside. If he does it again "Oh, Jerry! You've blocked the drive... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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laundrymom
![]() No touch my babies. Ever. And no hugging unless telling someone goodbye. And never ever ever any kissing. We give wenis "hi fives" after about 18 mo. Or whenever they can independently do it. ... |
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laundrymom
![]() I attend to cries. I do not attend to yelling. There is a difference. |
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laundrymom
![]() I would have called for pickup if she had no extras. Or gone w a pull-up no pants if she wasn't bothered by it. Some kids care. Some don't. No way i would share. |
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laundrymom
![]() "Mom, I realize that you are new to our program and may not understand how things work for availability in a small program. I will adjust things this time but can't do it going further. Your reserved... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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laundrymom
![]() "As much as I enjoy having your kids here, I understand your position and will respect your decision if you need to pull them. In this economy I am not able to hold two spots without tuition. It's... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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laundrymom
![]() "All childcare families. My family has suffered a great loss and we will be closed on x&x to attend funeral. Thank you for understanding. " |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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laundrymom
![]() The hiding spot under the lego/train table. They will stack two high three deep in there! |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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laundrymom
![]() Maybe it would be easier for mom to remember a quick text in the mornings? That way you have the info and she doesn't have to remember a log |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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laundrymom
![]() This is a great idea. "Mom, Sally really has trouble w the quinoa self feeding. Perhaps a different item until she masters the concept better? She's not getting as much in as on and she's still... |
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laundrymom
![]() I used to worry about that. Anymore I just try to feed, change, play, nap, and repeat. I dont worry about what they do at home. Or when they do it. I get them on a schedule that works for me. ... |
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laundrymom
![]() It was a rough week here. Our outdoor time was minutes. So humid and hot and I've got one little guy who gasped and had to have inhaler after a few minutes. Next week will be cooler. I keep reminding... |
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laundrymom
![]() I do a walking tour of our downtown farmers market in the spring and fall. I buy each child something from one of the vendors and we explore the market as a lazy group. If it gets too hectic or they... |
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laundrymom
![]() I guess it makes sense. I dont know. I stopped buying purée in about 1991. I just feed soft foods and tiny pieces from what I feed other kids. |
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laundrymom
![]() Sounds like you are on track. Just keep repeating. She will get the hang of it. I would seriously consider going to all feed herself sized pieces at every meal. No purée or spoon feeding her. ... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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laundrymom
![]() Ding ding ding. Have mom do a feed at drop off each morning for a week so you can see "how she holds him/bottle/ burps. Etc. " I also would send home after 30 min of failed feeding. |
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laundrymom
![]() That picture was not fair at 10:30 AM as I am getting ready to fix the kids their lunch that was literally cruel to me knowing that I can't even get to the store to get a steak until I get off... |
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laundrymom
![]() Bwahahahaha. Yep. But it's the meals they have at childcare which are ruining their development. Lol. |
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laundrymom
![]() I serve all types of foods including red meats, fish, pork, etc. but I also have an active program with hours of vigorous gross motor play each day so I would not adhere to this request. I do not... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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laundrymom
![]() I think I'd just delete the text. I wouldn't even respond. There is no reason you have to discuss it. Care has been terminated. Period. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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laundrymom
![]() "Program participation is terminated immediately due to parental behavior. " |
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laundrymom
![]() Usually it's in the claim site and you just print it out from the program you submit claims on. |
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laundrymom
![]() "I realize how frustrating it is when children's needs change. I suggest waking her a couple hours earlier in the morning to compensate for the hours you want her to sleep at night. It's too... |
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laundrymom
![]() "As of October first I am changing my availability to full time only care. I feel it's the best decision for my business at this time. If your family would like to take advantage of the new program... |
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laundrymom
![]() This seems to be the best option. "Mom, I'm unable to retrieve boy from the headstart bus. I'm sorry. " |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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laundrymom
![]() I'm blessed. My current inspector I've had for about ten years. She comes after morning snack, stays long enough to do paperwork and rarely even bothers the kids except to see a fire drill. She's in... |
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laundrymom
![]() ----->late to party. Lost on what happened. But years on this site and know that one of the posters mentioned is a true veteran w a wealth of knowledge that they freely share when it could help... |
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laundrymom
![]() Cacfp requires you to offer formula. The parents can choose to provide but if they choose not to providers must. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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laundrymom
![]() I would keep it simple "Our new friend is a little girl, 2 yrs old and can't wait for you to meet her" |
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laundrymom
![]() I would go outside toys. Climbers. Etc. or a mix of dramatic play, manipulative, art supplies. Toddler supplies can be used with a great range of ages. Congrats on the grant! |
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laundrymom
![]() I'd mention to your director that she was out of diapers so you used someone else's and maybe she had a reaction. Have her relay to mom to bring diapers in case that's why she was red and move on.... |
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laundrymom
![]() I get enough back to make it worth it. And I've not had a single issue but I'm strictly cash pay. I dont take ccdf because they require a landline phone. I use it for meals and receipt tally... |
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laundrymom
![]() Received notice today that kidcare is a malware site. Make sure you are using kidkare. Two Ks. Just a heads up. Apparently it's a nightmare for them. |
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laundrymom
![]() Driveway. Although we can park 8 vehicles in it, the parents seem to always be in each other's way. Lol |
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laundrymom
![]() I would absolutely have a party!!! I would have a huge "to do" and have mini muffins at afternoon snack. Except for the party girl. She would get a double sized espresso cupcake w some apple juice... |
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laundrymom
![]() I agree with the others. Take it. Raise your rates to reflect the income loss from being closed and take it unpaid. If you don't feel comfortable raising them then raise for new clients and... |
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laundrymom
![]() I gave notice to My child like this and mom opted to not return durin notice period. Which is fine. They all pay ahead two weeks. I was stressed so much when he was here and the kids were so... |
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laundrymom
![]() I've only been helping children potty learn since 1987 so might not have as much experience as some but might have more than others so here's my opinion. It's awesome that she has learned at home... |
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laundrymom
![]() I would just say that "Believe me mom, I agonized over the decision but feel jimmy would transition to a new care program easily and quickly. I think this is a great time for him to adjust to a new... |
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laundrymom
![]() And now I do have to pass costs on to the families. Which makes me look money hungry in their eyes. No. My food costs just increased and I have to find the mo way somewhere. |
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laundrymom
![]() We didn't get a raise but centers did. That makes no more sense than the reasoning behind our decrease last year. Especially now, because the new regs are costing us more to stay in guideline. I'm... |
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laundrymom
![]() I have three options for paying the two week deposit. Lump sum. Half. Or one quarter Per week until it's paid. |
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laundrymom
![]() Today is my first day after terming my child like this. It's odd how easy today has been. I dont have to say "will G be able to hurt anyone with this toy" prior to setting it in the play area. |
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laundrymom
![]() Thorns eventually wither and die. Flowers bloom among them as well. You got this. You do. You really do. You are morphing the old school lazy ditto days daycare into a thriving, engaging,... |
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laundrymom
![]() When you reach the sticker on the calendar and decide to have the talk and mom tells you after sending grandma to pickup they won't be here the rest of the week. I hate breaking up over texts. |
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laundrymom
![]() She is CHOOSING to be hungry. ALLOW her that choice. Stop making it an issue and it will stop being an issue. :-) |
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laundrymom
![]() My policy::: Parents provide all diapers, diaper wipes, diaper creams, lotions, sunscreen, etc. I will inform you when an item needs replacing and if parent chooses not to replace I will... |
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laundrymom
![]() I would charge your standard rate. And if she asks if dad pays you ii would simply say that your rate is $$ And ask if she'd like to see a contract and review your policies. I wouldnt respond to... |
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laundrymom
![]() I' would send a term notice. "Due to new enrollment policies I will no longer be offering drop in or pay as you go care. All childcare positions will be full time only. If you'd like to be on the... |
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laundrymom
![]() We were out from 7-1045 this morning and will go out again from 330-530 this afternoon. This mom would hate me. Lol |
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laundrymom
![]() For me it would depend on my relationship w her. If I respect them I am more apt to special favors. And I'd charge $20-$30 for the early time. If she was a snowflake I'd refuse. |
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laundrymom
![]() I def would respond with "sorry mom, older son is just too old for our environment." if she asks again. |
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laundrymom
![]() This!!!! And then place screamer in a spot that's safe and let them be. Stop giving "the barking dog a cookie!" |
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laundrymom
![]() "Mom, I know you've had her to the doctor and I know what they've suggested to you but this is an issue that needs addressed. Possibly a different physician, or one who specializes in this field... |
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laundrymom
![]() "Mom, during your maternity leave will you be dropping off and picking up big bro at regular time or will he be here less hours per day? " |
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laundrymom
![]() I have one who is w grandma on sundays and wednesdays. She has a rash Monday and Thursday mornings. But sores are different. Sores are an opening for MRSA and ain't NOBODY got time for that. |
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laundrymom
![]() "Mom, since routine diaper changing and standard bum care isn't helping juniors wounds on his bottom, I'm going to require a doctors visit to rule out a possible underlying condition. Possibly we can... |
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laundrymom
![]() I allow one week free per year but it must be taken all at once and have two weeks written notice. That's it. I get two weeks unpaid vacation per year. Five paid absence days. Christmas,... |
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laundrymom
![]() I would serve milk at meals and snacks and water between meals. I offer a snack in the morning. Lunch, and in the afternoon a large snack w all components of a food program "dinner" I only offer... |
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laundrymom
![]() I nap them all in playroom. Sight and sound. From enrollment start to the day they leave me. |
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laundrymom
![]() I would remind mom that your group often picnics in the park and you have no way to warm meals there. That you prefer a cold packed lunch or a thermos if a meal needs served warm. As for the milk,... |
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laundrymom
![]() "I'm so sorry but that is actually not acceptable practice in child care. Babies are held for feedings and only sleep in a crib with no toys, blankets or stuffed animals. Would you like me to find... |
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laundrymom
![]() I allow them to attend but refuse to entertain. They are children. They should be able to imagine an afternoon away easily. Loose part toys, and a bunch of fresh air should be all he needs. |