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![]() I agree. It does sound like something could be going on. It makes me sad for him too; whether due to personality or other reason, I think it's got to be confusing to him, too! It makes me... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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![]() I would certainly add a clause going forward that if there is a state of emergency or major weather event, you will use your discretion about staying open. Also, something like "for safety reasons,... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() This thread is 8 years old. The above mentioned 2 year old is 10 now! I wonder if he's still eating only baby food?:D As far as being a "shitty" mother, hopefully you base your self-esteem on... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() DSo true So true! Honestly, almost every "term" I had were because of the parents, not the kid, but one was so violent years ago, I reached out to EVERYONE for help. Early Childhood, social... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() My sister had a "near miss" 25 years ago with my niece, who was about 3 or 4 at the time. They have a tuck-under garage, accessible through the house. They were headed out to the grocery store,... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() One would hope it'd scare the same out of the mom, and maybe she'd get on dad's case. :) Ok...I forgot how to work the quotes. That was in response to BC's construction dad. :rolleyes: |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() Yes, but for you, that's legal, you are experienced, educated, and you follow your state's licensing regulations. Every provider I know of that operates illegally has way more kids than they can... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() Sounds like a good idea. Most of the unregistered posts seem to be trouble-makers, with only a exceptions. |
Forum: Reggio / Waldorf / Forest Kindergarten / Granola / Natural - Learning Methods
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Heidi
![]() So, in Wisconsin you must have a fenced in yard in order to be licensed, but you don't have to stay in the yard. It's fine to go for walks or on field trips. Could you fence in a little part of the... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() Yeah...long story..I am currently unemployed, got lonely, and decided to come visit after recommending the site to a friend in the childcare world. I will post the long story sometime soon. :) ... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() Did you take the check to her bank and cash it, or did you deposit it? I would worry about the dang thing bouncing! If you know it's cleared, I would give her notice, with an ending date of (last... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() http://www.oregondairycouncil.org/resources/free_downloads/downloads/How_To_Feed_Baby-English.pdf |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() I started introducing a sippy at 6 months (when they can sit up), and by 15 months, they were off that and on to an open cup! :lol: Well, by sippy I mean Bell Tumbler with a lid, not a "sippy"... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() You could tell them that she's having a great transition except for nap, and you'd like to extend the trial period two weeks because there have been so many changes at the same time. As for the... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() I would mail the check to her old address. If she forwarded her mail, she'll get it, cash it, and you'll have a cancelled check to prove you returned it. If she didn't forward her mail, you'll... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() Here is another great resource for gifted children and those who love them: http://www.hoagiesgifted.org/ |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() I would keep on the track your on. A little crying isn't so bad. If you're allowed in your state, are you willing to give her a book or stuffed animal, or both? I always tucked the stuffed animal... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() Well, hopefully the school doesn't hold it against her attendance record. She only missed part of the day. Most of our local schools track parents down if children are absent without a call (if... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() No attack, and actually very little meat in the story of any kind. Meh...:rolleyes: |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() In that case, I would refer him to B-3. If he had SOME expressive language, I wouldn't be as worried. I usually start those conversations with "Have you noticed...?" It gives the authority to... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() I found this article that has some ideas. http://centerforparentingeducation.org/library-of-articles/child-development/understanding-temperament-emotional-sensitivity/ Have you tried making a... |
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() For the nap time thing, both my sis and I have signs on the front door. KIDS NAPPING! DO NOT DISTURB! Call xxx-xxx-xxxx for entry. BIG sign. You could add "under penalty of death" or... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() I would recommend that unless she emailed you this information (and therefore you have it in writing), you act with caution. Meaning, don't go by what she said. Go by what's written in the regs. ... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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![]() Yep! And if they come and you say "I don't have kids", they have every right to check (during licensed hours). "I don't have kids" could very well mean that "I have am over my ratios and... |
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![]() Forge you signature? So, she's going to commit a criminal act? Personally, I would just tell her that if she feels like she needs to take you to court, she should go ahead and do that. If she... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() Legally, it depends on what your contract says. You should have a copy, read it. As far as "going after you", it depends on the laws in your state, and again, what your contract states. Not sure... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() likethis Make a copy of this and give it to her when you have that talk: http://www.oregondairycouncil.org/resources/free_downloads/downloads/How_To_Feed_Baby-English.pdf |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() WI has an exemption for some religious based childcare programs, but there is other criteria for the exemption. Not sure what it is, tbh. I think it has to be a "legal" non-profit church and there... |
Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
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Heidi
![]() I don't doubt this one bit! However, the children I work with are not IN daycare. They are at home, most of them in fairly disfunctional families. Most all the parents work, but they work... |
Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
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Heidi
![]() I'm still going to argue that those gains that children make, then lose, is because of our public schools, NOT because they didn't make them in the first place. I was a family childcare provider... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() same here. I can honestly say I rarely "played" with my kids. Honestly, it's boring to play with a 3 year old. :ouch: That doesn't mean I don't like their company, or that I'll never play with... |
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Heidi
![]() Don't care either. Your GF should never feel bad about being in her home, in your life, because of strangers. If someone is uncomfortable, then they can go elsewhere. If anyone ever gave my... |
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Heidi
![]() well, women sometimes marry men with that same attitude! :lol::lol::lol::lol: |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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![]() :hug: She's having a temper tantrum. Hopefully, it's played itself out. |
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Heidi
![]() So...you understand Murphy's Law, right? The thing that you're most prepared for is the thing LEAST likely to happen. So, Tasha, PREPARE! :D Unfortunately, being alone at home with a bunch of... |
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Heidi
![]() agreed.. My 15 year old was just called out by a teacher for "not listening" when in fact, he just had a different perspective on a comment the teacher made. The teacher said "we can't make... |
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![]() I'm doing a little research for a parent presentation, and came across this. I thought it might be helpful both providers and to share with parents. ... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() Has he been evaluated for Autism or Asperger's? That speech style and the obsession with one topic reminds me of several children with Asperger's I've worked with. Does he rock, twirl hair, or have... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() I think it really depends on your circumstances. When my kids were younger, my sister did daycare down the street. We often went on walks together. Sometimes, another friend and dcp down the... |
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Heidi
![]() Ditto this... If it helps, we give you permission to terminate your care arrangement with him (you don't really need it, but it might help with the guilt you'll put yourself through). Tell her... |
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![]() My grandmother used to tell me not to sit on "cold" cement (in July) because it would ruin my "woman parts" and I'd be sterile. This, all in German, of course. She didn't live long enough to... |
Forum: Daycare and Taxes
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Heidi
![]() Nevermind...just figured out why it was so high. :ouch: |
Forum: Daycare and Taxes
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Heidi
![]() I had exclusive use areas of each house, too. Forgot to mention that. So, looking at your example, and figuring that in too, could this be right for just the 2nd house, May-Oct? Time-Space... |
Forum: Daycare and Taxes
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Heidi
![]() Thank you, Tom! I did look through your blog first, but not hard enough. Thanks for the help. :) |
Forum: Daycare and Taxes
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![]() Hi Tom! I normally use MMK to calculate the T/S, but we had a wierd year here, so I don't trust it's right. Jan-end of April, we had a 2167 sq ft home. 372 sq ft exclusively childcare, 1795... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() I just left childcare for a job with Head Start. I really miss my kiddos, but so far (10 weeks in), I don't miss running a daycare day-to-day. I do miss the autonomy a little, although my job is... |
Forum: New Members - Welcome to the Daycare.com Forum!
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Heidi
![]() http://families.naeyc.org/learning-and-development/child-development/understanding-and-responding-children-who-bite I found that finding the root cause was the quickest way to curb it. If it's... |
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Heidi
![]() I was a banker! lol...and a realtor in between there somewhere. Skills are similar to childcare, and actually, so are the job duties, supporting families, directing to services, developmental... |
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Heidi
![]() Basically, we support low-income families in being their child's teacher. I go visit each family weekly (I have 10 children, 8 families). I do activities with the kids and parents together (parents... |
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![]() Hello! I've been poking in now and then, giving my two-cents worth. I thought I'd say "hi" today. I really do love my job (as a home visitor for Headstart). I work with nice people, don't... |
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Heidi
![]() It's awesome that you've figured it out. :) I generally just remind them "gentle hands" at that age, and then guide them with simple language. Say something like "you want to play....say play,... |
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![]() My contract was worded that "payment is due on the first day of attendance for the week". So, if they were absent Monday, they'd pay Tuesday. Kind of inconvenient for me sometimes, but since I live... |
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Heidi
![]() A couple ideas: Put everything where you want it, then take a picture of that shelf/area, and post the picture above the area. This is the guide or template for the children to put things back. ... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() Perhaps a solution would be to put the baby in the crib or playpen, but to elevate one side of the crib slightly so he's more upright. We did this when my son had ear infections; put a couple unit... |
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![]() likethislikethis I'm a little shocked that if he did this in front of medical personnel, he wasn't escorted out of the hospital by security. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() I do the same. Since all my kids come by car and most have longer rides, they typically only have coats, hats, and maybe boots on. I have them leave extra snow pants here. I bought mittens and... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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![]() I honestly cannot beleive they did it on purpose. My guess, she was playing quietly or fell asleep somewhere and someone screwed up. Willfully leaving her there alone would be inviting a S***... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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Heidi
![]() Yay!happyfacehappyfacehappyface Now, document everything and call your regulator with a heads up. :) |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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![]() "Since I am unable to accommodate your variable schedule, I will take this as your two weeks notice" or "since I am unable to accomodate your variable schedule, this serves as two weeks notice":D |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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![]() I've never charged extra for cloth. I just don't think it's that big a deal myself. For holding a spot, they sign the contract and put down a deposit (non-refundable) for one or two weeks tuition... |
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![]() Well, the few times I've had to call out sick, I've known the night before (already felt like crap). I then texted the parents to give them a heads up that they may need back up, with a promise to... |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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![]() If her pick up time is consistent, that might be a good time to keep a few special toys for him. He can sit at the table and play nearby during the pickup. It won't curb all the aggression, but... |
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![]() I would not say "no backsies" because then, no one would ever call the day before to inform us. They'd wait until the last minute. As it turns out, you sent him home anyway. What I would say... |
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![]() I don't have a "clean spot" for my little man to sit, so I am sure mom will be wondering why his socks are so dirty. He messed around for 20 minutes before finally putting his shoes on today. Now... |
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![]() Well, in a Montessori program, children have rugs to do their "work" on. However THEY choose their work, and when they are done with one thing, they put it away and choose another. It's "freedom... |
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Heidi
![]() It really sounds like a cold, so I would not exclude. Gross, yes. Contagious, yes. Excludable? No. If I excluded for every cold, I'd have no kiddos, because it's on/off/on/off all the time with... |
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![]() likethis Yeah...NO! I would not take her into care tomorrow without payment. I would, in fact, call her tonight and tell her so. "Hey, DCM, just wanted to tell you that we had a great day,... |
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![]() Oh, I've been doing this with this group since day 1. One child (3 in December) can do all but zipping by herself. My other friend cant/wont do much of anything except stare at the wall, try to... |
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![]() Ha! This was one of the factors leading to my decision to accept that job (among others). I was absolutely dreading adding snow pants, boots, mittens, and hats. My 2 1/2 year old took 45 minutes... |
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![]() I would also ask. I believe that supporting families is part of what we do. |
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![]() You have a form that you use? If so, can you share it? |
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![]() I think we need to bring back the phrase "tough Chucky, kiddo!" followed by "now, go PLAY!" I just reinstituted signing loudly (and badly) "You can't always have what you waaannt" by the Rolling... |
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![]() Actually, I've had that happen numerous times. I had a LO last year who never had stinky poops. I felt really bad about it; she was a red head with very sensitive skin, to boot. Until one day... |
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![]() Sage green? Light peach? Blue/gray? I'm not a fan of beige. Nuetral is nice, boring is not. There is a decor group. Maybe look there. Also Google Reggio Emelia programs; they are typically... |
Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
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Heidi
![]() Just to make it clear, you are getting answers from daycare providers here. So, it's not your typical cross-section of parents. Most of us SERVE healthy foods (and are knowledgable about... |
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![]() If you can get on the decor website, look at NWOJ's pics (way in the first pages). Lovely! |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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![]() Vacation part is true, length of workday not so much. I think it's closer to 35 hours a week. Still, way better than 50, eh?! |
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![]() It just went through here, but symptoms were so mild that I did not exclude. By the time anyone had any sort of rash, they'd already exposed everyone anyway. It's was also running rampant at the... |
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![]() In my last house, I got an armoire and made that into the changing station. No more diaper table out in the open. |
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![]() http://www.webmd.com/children/guide/sleep-disorders-children-symptoms-solutions They need to ask the doctor AGAIN...and AGAIN...and the next doctor. People need to be advocates for their child. |
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![]() Told all my families that I was closing my program today (effective Oct 22). The one mom I thought would have a meltdown did not. Thank you, DCM! |
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![]() So... You're lease, which I believe is a contract you signed, says 'no business". That means...no business. Sucks, but true. I dealt with it once myself many years ago, and even though I was... |
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![]() Although changing diapers is part of my job, unless your child has a documented disability, it is not common to expect a caregive to change diapers after a child's 3rd birthday or so. While I... |
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![]() I guess I would need more information. Not all special needs are diagnosed. I'd need to know what his previous daycare situation was, how the parents feel about the fact that he's still in... |
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![]() Personally, I'd just skip the processed, premade anything. No chicken nuggets or fish sticks. In fact, when you interview people, you can brag about that. I serve pretty much only whole grains... |