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![]() Well, I posted a month ago that we found out we're pregnant with baby#3 that we were told we couldn't have without IVF. For the last 3 weeks, I have been really sick/nauseated, went to the hospital... |
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![]() After snack, the 4 1/2 year old took 13 minutes to put his shoes on. I'm definitley going to be working on making him more self efficient. And I just checked and he'll actually be five in the middle... |
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![]() I wish the tantrum was in the morning, the answer is easy for that one, parents just need to leave. But I'm not wanting to deal with it at the end of my day, I'm just ready to close, especially now... |
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![]() I have two 3 1/2 year olds that come in every morning sleepy. During morning tv time (while I'm preparing breakfast) one of them always lay down on the floor and tries to fall asleep. I tell her... |
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![]() She picks up pretty consistently at the same time. They'll have themselves ready to go by 4 today. |
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tbutler
![]() I'll definitely have them both ready today for pickup. His 3.5 year old brother started crying too yesterday once he saw him crying and having a fit. Not today though. I'm shooting for a less than... |
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tbutler
![]() I would mention it at pickup. "Mom have you noticed that baby has been coughing and gagging for the past few weeks?" "Have you taken him to the doctor or been giving him any meds?". If she has been... |
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tbutler
![]() I'm the same as BlackCat. If the kid can't, won't, or doesn't want to play during play time when normally they would, they are sick and need to be home for that special attention he/she needs. ... |
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tbutler
![]() Hey Marina, thanks for the advice and I do have the same info, just not exactly like yours, in my handbook. I don't think I made the two "issues" clear though in my OP. 1. Instead of parents... |
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tbutler
![]() Great advice! But what about when the kid is throwing a tantrum at pickup time? It takes them like 5 minutes to leave. |
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tbutler
![]() I promote all kids, no matter what age, being self efficient as much as their skill level will allow. This is easy to do when you have a routine. Kids know that when they get here, take off their... |
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tbutler
![]() I purchased a Wii for my 6 and 4 year old daughters for Christmas. They love playing the dancing game. Some afternoons after snack, they play the dance game, no one uses a remote. Everyone just... |
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tbutler
![]() I have a 3-in-1 printer, copier, scanner so I just make a copy of it after we've both signed it. I keep the original, they get the copy. |
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tbutler
![]() I had to get over the "this kid doesn't eat anything unless it's chicken nuggets" frustration too. I give them very little servings of whatever lunch is. If they don't eat it, I'm not throwing away... |
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tbutler
![]() Thats exactly what I told parents when they asked if I accepted the subsidy. "No, I have enough paperwork to keep up with for the state and food program. I want to be able to spend some time with... |
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![]() Great ideas. Where'd you get your punch balloons from? |
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tbutler
![]() I turned to the dance/electronica music channel for the nonstop, upbeat music, told the kids there were 3 rules: no flipping, hitting, nor jumping on the couch. They jumped, turned, twirled,... |
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tbutler
![]() The two boys that I posted about yesterday started today. Some weeks they will be here 5 days and others 3 days a week. Can you share your form with me that you have part-time parents complete in... |
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tbutler
![]() Congrats smb! So how long do you plan on being off after the baby? @after school mom, I'm feeling fine as long as I eat small meals/snacks every few hours. I'm even working out still. You? ... |
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tbutler
![]() Thank you. And I'm not telling my parents until I'm at least three months and I've officially decided what I'm going to do. |
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tbutler
![]() I agree with Arianna. Also, when other kids are playing with toys nicely or playing nicely with their other day care friends, praise them too so she can see the positive behavior and a positive... |
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tbutler
![]() Yayyyy:), I have a September due date buddy! I'm not sure what I'm going to do:eek:. I just ran the B/A school idea by my husband this morning. I would need help from him and his family to make this... |
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tbutler
![]() Thanks for the congratulations! And yes my husband and daughters are very excited. Right now I don't offer any SA care. I would rather not do it. But I would love to keep my business name out there... |
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tbutler
![]() Yes I do have a contract. She took it with her along with other paperwork to look over more in depth. I covered the main parts of my handbook and contract with her during the interview. |
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tbutler
![]() I like this, I'm going to send this verbatim. I'll let you all know how it goes. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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tbutler
![]() Parents still have to pay the weekly fee if their child is out sick. She offered to stop by and make the first weeks payment last Wed or Thurs but I told her no because she wanted to come by at... |
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![]() Me and my husband found out last week that we are expecting our third child at the end of September. We are so happy and excited because we were told we couldn't have anymore children unless we have... |
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tbutler
![]() Family came for interview last Tuesday for 2 spots, 3 & 4 year old boys. The interview went well and I gave her an application. Parent left saying child will start tomorrow more than likely. Well,... |
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tbutler
![]() Don't feel guilty. I had the exact same feeling on and off since I started in August. I felt strongly about sending her to another daycare today if I could, lol! Initially it was her having ownership... |
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tbutler
![]() My first kid I got when opening in August asked me that question. Mom's sister and I have the same sign. Guess it made her feel comfortable. Mom is a great parent as well. |
Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
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tbutler
![]() Yes I understood Blackcat. Thanks Meeko and again Blackcat for the response. I will read through licensing webiste Meeko to see if I'll have to be classified as a center. |
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tbutler
![]() Thanks so much BlackCat. I knew that if no one else responded, you would. I've been doing it in my home since school started at the end of August. I just had my house painted the week after... |
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tbutler
![]() I'm in Texas and I can have 6 all day under age 5 and 6 before and after schoolers. So a total of 12. |
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tbutler
![]() Hi ladies, My husband and I have a rent house that was new when whe purchased it in 2004. He told me yesterday that our tenants may be moving out in August. He then asked me would I like to run... |
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tbutler
![]() I refuse to renew my Sam's Club membership due to the fees and the upgrade cost to have business membership (for earlier shopping hours). This is where I used to buy my laminating sheets from. Any... |
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tbutler
![]() Thanks for all the ideas. I think next week I'm going to change it to a grocery store. I'll start saving empty boxes/containers that will be safe for the kids to play with this week. I appreciate... |
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![]() This sounds like a good idea. Are you making the felt board yourself? |
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tbutler
![]() What is your dramatic play center right now? What will it be for the month of November? Needing ideas because my three year olds are bored with the Home Center! |
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![]() All mine are sleep...(2) 3 year olds and (1) 4 year old and my 1.5 year old beagle/golden retriever mix is asleep too! |
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tbutler
![]() It's nice to see families that work with their providers. Glad this worked out for you. |
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![]() I was wondering the same thing! I'm just over 100 too. |
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tbutler
![]() Some parents eat alot of crap so they feed their kids alot of crap too. Unfortunately, in this busy, busy world we live in, honey buns, pop tarts, frosted flakes are easy and quick for working... |
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tbutler
![]() I say respond exactly as Wdmmom said. Just make sure the date and time is set correctly on your email (my hotmail account time and date are always incorrect) so that once she responds electronically... |
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![]() I'm researching opening a small center outside of my home next year. I love the personal relationships that I've been able to make with some of my parents thus far. But, I started as a home provider... |
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![]() I hope your babies aren't getting sick either. I understand you having a tv day. Maybe it's just one of those days. |
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tbutler
![]() Family 1: mom always drops off and picks up b/c she works near my house. Grandma picks up when mom is in training or Dad picks up when he gets off work early. Mom works for school district. ... |
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![]() Great ideas. I'm definitely saving this thread and making sensory tubs this weekend. (amongst cleaning, washing, soccer game,etc ;)) |
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![]() I do the same thing. Helps not to waste soap, paper towels, and not have water all over the floor too. |
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![]() Lol! I know what you mean. I give them toilet paper myself to make sure they don't use a roll a day. |
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![]() I agree, this is what it sounds like to me. In Texas, you can be a Listed Family Home: People who must list with the division are those who are compensated to provide regular child care (at... |
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![]() I agree. I wish he could've adjusted after a week. Lucky you. A few of the kids have even said "he needs a time out" and "he needs to go to another school". They are all pointing out when he's... |
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![]() I do a little bit of both. Kid menu: Hot dogs with baked beans and a fruit turkey burgers with baked fries and a fruit pizza with corn and a fruit grilled cheese, green beans, fruit ... |
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![]() I purchased cd's from dollar tree that are a mix of classical and nature sounds. Loved paying only $1!:) I put the cd on "repeat all" until I wake them up. |
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![]() Nannyde I was hoping that you would chime in. Thanks for your response. You're right, they KNOW that he acts that way. Some of the things that they have let slip when I talk to them about his... |
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![]() I would set a timer for 5-10 mins as the amount of time she has to eat. When timer goes off, she cleans up whatever mess she has made and lunch for her is over. I'll explain that if she doesn't eat... |
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![]() I charge by the week. Right now I only have 3 year olds, 125/week for full time. No part-timers. |
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![]() Too many details to bore you with a long story so will just list main issues: dcb3: -very low vocabulary, words he does speak are barely understandable -consistently tells me "no" -runs around... |
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tbutler
![]() The change will be good for you and your family. Unfortunately, you may lose a family, but, if you're able to make it without that income then I say do it. But who knows, they may be able to pickup... |
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tbutler
![]() I had a dcb3 start recently that does the same thing and I've been trying to figure out how to word it here on the forum. I have other behavioral issues as well with him. I won't hijack your post... |
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![]() I had a dcb start recently that does the same thing and I've been trying to figure out how to word it here on the forum. I have other behavioral issues as well with him. I won't hijack your post with... |
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![]() I have all three year olds, but, I play the spa music and sit directly next to the one who is having a hard time winding down so they can fall asleep. |
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![]() The change will be good for you and your family. Unfortunately, you may lose a family, but, if you're able to make it without that income then I say do it. But who knows, they may be able to pickup... |
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tbutler
![]() The change will be good for you and your family. Unfortunately, you may lose a family, bu,t if you're able to make it without that income then I say do it. But who knows, they may be able to pickup... |
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![]() $1500/month right now with 3 full timers. I live in the Houston area. I have my three year old too that I remind that she has to earn her keep since she's taking up a paying spot lol. |
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![]() I love the idea of Thursday and Friday being play days. I think I"ll start that this week. I'm having to learn to relax a little and enjoy the kids since I'm not a public school teacher anymore. ... |
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![]() I too feel that I'm a better mom after losing my job in June. I now get to spend more time with my kids. I'm not getting off work and rushing to do dinner, baths, and send them to bed. Now dinner... |
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![]() Only a few days a week. My options are 10 hours per day maximum on either M-W-F or T-TH. This particular family is interested in M-W-F from 7am-5pm for their daughter who will be two in a few weeks. |
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![]() Hi ladies, I have an interview tomorrow afternoon for a part-time position. I know the things tha I would like included (price, days, hours, that there spot is only good until there is a full... |
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![]() DCG3 has had three accidents in the month that she has been with me. She had an accident (#1) during center time this morning on my carpet/foam tile. I smiled the entire time while I was thinking... |
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![]() I use the 3M strips too for heavier things. Otherwise I use the blue painters tape. |
Forum: New Members - Welcome to the Daycare.com Forum!
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![]() I love still being able to teach everyday. My 5 year old started Kindergarten and gets out at 1:50 so my home child care allows me to be home for her and be the teacher to my 3 year old (which... |
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![]() :mad:We put a lot of hard work into those handbooks and majority doesn't read them!!!! During my last interview, I made it a point to go over the main points in my handbook with the parent (early... |
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![]() I buy the water/nature sound cd's from Dollar Tree that I use for nap time. I have all three year olds so action and sing along cd's are what I use....Dr. Jean and Greg & Steve cd's. I even let them... |
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![]() Yikes! :eek: hopefully he doesn't cry for long after mommy leaves. I'm starting to learn to just ask (or tell) parents what I want or need and that it makes things easier. Or just update the handbook... |
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![]() Once they awake they are bringing me their blankets to fold and put in cubbies ( they started this themselves) and then they sit in our play area until they are awake enough to start talking to each... |
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![]() Great job! I know you feel a lot better not having to worry about parents breaking that rule anymore. |
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![]() At this point, I would start to ignore his behavior as well as teach the other children to ignore him as well. As long as he isn't harming himself or the other children and you can actually see him... |
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![]() I did this all the time when I was in the public school system. Most parents took notice and became involved and more concerned about their child's lack of sleeping or unacceptable behavior that was... |
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![]() That sounds like a great idea. What exactly are the handprint crafts? |
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![]() I mostly use cd's during circle time. But we sing them ourselves, no cd, during transitions, outside play, or while walking around the neighborhood. But always a cd during circle time. |
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![]() DCG, 3 years old, first day was today. I turned on the soft music as they laid down and covered up for naptime. She says "Can you turn the music off?". Poor child has never been to daycare before... |
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![]() I do not dispense meds either. I'm adding your response in the red to my handbook tonight. I will have it printed for parents to sign saying they have read and received their own copy tomorrow... |
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