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![]() Almost all of my DCks have had pull-ups at nap until they leave for kinder. I use pull-ups mainly for ease of use and they can put them on themselves while I get the others ready for bed etc. |
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Ariana
![]() Agree it looks like you might need to come up with your own reward system if this is bothering you! I did chocolate chips for my own kids. One for pee, two for poop. It’s very odd that he... |
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Ariana
![]() It’s a phase they go through that is very common when adjusting to a new caregiver. The parents unfortunately made this much worse by switching providers. That has caused even more stress and... |
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Ariana
![]() How long has he been going to preschool? I typically look for what is NEW to see why the new behaviour. Maybe he is feeling overwhelmed at preschool? Maybe there is a jerk at preschool? Maybe the... |
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Ariana
![]() Such a wonderful idea! With my husband sudden death all I have are random videos where mainly our kids are the main focus. It would have been so nice to have something like this for our children. ... |
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![]() I am so sorry Michael :(. Death seems to be all around us now and so many people in my widow support group have spouses who died of Covid. It is heart breaking. |
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Ariana
![]() It is way too early for any kind of evaluation. If the child was speaking in full sentence then maybe but from what I am hearing this child is not gifted or intelligent. I had parents like this... |
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Ariana
![]() I would only accept a negative test in order to return. |
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Ariana
![]() Look up some of my threads regarding a crazy texting neurotic mother. I dealt with her for over a year. It was the worst. I tried to lay many many boundaries and in the end I closed due to Covid... |
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Ariana
![]() I had a parent like this and no amount of talking to her about it helped so at the end of the day I just did what worked for me and kept her out of the loop. It made us both happier and the kids... |
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Ariana
![]() I have followed RIE for many years but agree that balance is key. It’s mostly just about respect, treating your child like a whole person and love. Sure bouncies and exersaucers are not great but... |
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Ariana
![]() This is exactly why I have been closed since March. I just can’t deal with this and I know a few families that would pull this stunt. I would terminate care! Sorry you are having to deal with... |
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Ariana
![]() I also use Bluetooth from my phone to a Bluetooth clock radio in case I want to listen to radio as well. I can also physically plug my phone into it to play music which was important to me because my... |
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Ariana
![]() I worked with a woman who did this. She had to supply with our centre to make ends meat as she was not in high demand in a city of 1 million people! |
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Ariana
![]() Favorite Christmas movies: The Family Man and Scrooge (with Alistair Sims) Favorite Christmas song: Silver Bells and Good King Wenceslas Favorite Christmas candy: Chocolate covered cherries ... |
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Ariana
![]() I use a regular round dining table with space saver high chairs and/or booster seats that attach to dining chairs. I don’t like the idea of using kid sized because they can get up and run away from... |
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Ariana
![]() I am a member of two FB groups for providers in my area and it’s a lot of fun! I also manage the local COVID-19 FB page and to be honest there isn’t too much drama. Just set the rules (which are... |
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Ariana
![]() Typically I do a Christmas book and we do Christmas themed crafts. I don’t typically do crafts so it is a real treat for the parents. Last year I also bought chocolates for the parents as part of... |
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Ariana
![]() I am really happy it’s an mRNA vaccine because it means my body is making it and it’s not material being injected into me. The people who had allergic reactions are the same people who have... |
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Ariana
![]() If she is breaking the law her contract is null and void. |
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Ariana
![]() Hugs to everyone :hug: Annalee I think this woman was SO lucky to have poured her soul out to you! Your response was perfect and compassionate and many people might have made her feel like a... |
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Ariana
![]() I took 3 weeks off last Christmas for sanity reasons. No one was real happy about it, especially teacher mom but guess what? She never left so who cares :lol: |
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Ariana
![]() I use this ALL.THE.TIME because it's actually true and my memory doesn't work very well :lol: |
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Ariana
![]() Have you spoken to him about it? Maybe see where this is coming from and try to get him to understand that he is his own person and doesn't have to copy. I have never had this issue, it sounds... |
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Ariana
![]() :lol::lol::lol: I wish these were daycare specific but it's still funny! |
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Ariana
![]() "I'm sorry but you will have to refresh my memory, when did we have this conversation?" Maybe throw in an "I'm getting old joke as well. |
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Ariana
![]() I feel pretty confident in the vaccine but we aren't likely going to get it for a while. I am leaving it up to everyone's choice. |
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Ariana
![]() My old dog mostly stays away now but LOVES mealtimes! Not sure what I am going to do when he dies, my floors will be a mess because he is better than Hoover! My kitty just loves being in on any... |
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Ariana
![]() This is how I feel as well. Too much work and 99% of the time the kids are oblivious to what holidays are happening so it feels forced. I don’t typically do theme/adult lead activities either so... |
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Ariana
![]() I am really liking this idea! I have wondered previously how to bring up if certain people celebrate certain Christian holidays or not. I think going forward I may cut out all cultural celebrations... |
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Ariana
![]() Then term immediately! It’s up to you. I am just saying what works and what usually happens. Calling for pickup each time will not help because he is still not learning to self soothe. Self... |
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Ariana
![]() Oh and... Morning Show (Amazing storyline and great acting) Ted Lasso (funny, American in Britain kind of humour) |
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Ariana
![]() I don’t call for pickup because it reinforces the crying. I cry, I get to go home, so why stop! Give it two weeks and if you see absolutely no improvement terminate care. You should see some... |
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Ariana
![]() Killing Eve Handmaids tale Fleabag Homeland House of Cards Unbelievable (Currently watching the Queens Gambit but so far not impressed 3 episodes in). Any and all crime documentaries (Making... |
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Ariana
![]() It is so odd isn’t it! Maybe trying to cover up the smell of smoke? I had a daycare mom that would come in occasionally reeking of perfume (and smoke) and I knew she smoked even though she said she... |
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Ariana
![]() It honestly sounds like you have tried everything! When I am outside with the kids I am hyper aware that their noises are bothering the neighbours but my group is not loud at all unless I have... |
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Ariana
![]() I personally would get the kid some clothes to change into at my house and wouldn’t address it at all! I would just feel too bad to bring it up! I had a kid who’s clothes smelled so strongly of... |
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Ariana
![]() When I transition I typically cut the amount that their first nap is until they no longer need it to get to lunch. At 30 minutes though it is my opinion they don’t need it and I would cut it out... |
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Ariana
![]() My husband used to do this as well and it is a form of self soothing, kind of like sucking on a pacifier, rubbing a blanket, rubbing your ear etc. Unless he is harming himself I wouldn’t worry too... |
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Ariana
![]() Could it be a sensory issue? Does he have any other sensitivities? I ask because for my daughter it is sensory. She tastes thing much stronger than other people. My other daughter loves veggies,... |
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Ariana
![]() I think I would simply say "have you read the contract"? There is absolutely no reason she should be confused about what she is missing if she read the contract. This is a person who is used to not... |
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Ariana
![]() My option choice as well :lol: seriously though I would quit and take a year! It is pretty much what I am doing right now but without the $500-$1000 because my husbands money is my money and vice... |
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Ariana
![]() I have been closed since March and even though I knew I was stressed I honestly had no idea until I closed. I figured after a while I would miss it, feel rested and ready to go back but every time I... |
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Ariana
![]() I only raise to new clients as well but to be honest my rates are very similar to what they were when I first opened. With new providers popping up with super low rates and a provider on every... |
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Ariana
![]() With my kids is virtual learning I can see and hear everything the teachers are doing. Now I think teachers are paid way too much here in Canada :cool: |
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Ariana
![]() Dry cold is so much better than wet cold if that makes sense! Wet cold gets to your bones as we say here ;). Where I grew up it was -45C regularly (typical winter day) and our school wasn’t... |
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Ariana
![]() She deliberately took them and now wants to keep them. I would ask her to pay for them! |
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Ariana
![]() He would no longer be served breakfast and he can cry all he wants ;) |
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Ariana
![]() I charge teachers a higher rate all year and then have their child attend part time over the summer. It works for me because I have my own kids home all summer and want less kids. You have to do... |
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Ariana
![]() What do you hope to gain by telling the parents? I guess in my mind there is no point because they will likely get mad at him and now you’ve betrayed his trust. I think I would just leave it and... |
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Ariana
![]() I found this site early on too and it has helped me soooo much as well!!! |
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Ariana
![]() I would give them another chance personally. It’s their first time at daycare so you need to teach them how to treat you. Enforce your policies, be professional but firm and they will start... |
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Ariana
![]() I think it’s a reaction to the possibility of death and someone else stepping in? |
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Ariana
![]() This was my second child! Nothing I did worked. One day at 5 she decided she was ready and started pooping on the toilet. Looking back I wish I hadn’t gotten so stresssed. She is now 7 and she... |
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Ariana
![]() It is great but I mostly wanted to be done earlier :lol: |
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Ariana
![]() I have parents that don’t seem to care and just pick the most expensive option!! 9.5-10 hour days no matter what so I am going to have to reduce my hours. |
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Ariana
![]() Knowing colours and letters and numbers is not age appropriate for 2 years old. This is more of a 4-5 year old (maybe 3 yrs for colour). Milestone. Eating with his hands is a bit concerning but he... |
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Ariana
![]() I use pull-ups and if the child is potty trained they don’t really go in them. If you get to a point that a pull-up is leaking (which has never happened to me) then they need diapers. Pull-ups also... |
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Ariana
![]() It’s one of those stupid political messages meant to divide people into categories of RIGHT and WRONG and I hate self righteousness and virtue signalling, especially when using a kid to do it. This... |
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Ariana
![]() A fever, an infection, a DR visit and antibiotics? He would not be allowed in my house. I have 48 hrs after First dose of antibiotics because that’s how long they take to work and 24 hours after... |
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Ariana
![]() You have to detach and let it go. Is it true no one can do it as good as you can? Thats a lot of pressure to put on yourself. Many people are capable and so are these kids. |
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Ariana
![]() I would ask that any questions from her employer be directed to me personally through telephone. If the employer calls which they most likely won’t, i will explain that the mom told me child was... |
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Ariana
![]() I had two kid go through daycare and no issues with either in terms of bullying. I did not treat my kids the same and they got special privileges like the ability to use their own toys in their... |
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Ariana
![]() I typically send a reminder on paydays with the new total amount owed due to late fees. “Hi DCM just a reminder that payment this week is $X to include late fees from X date, thanks” |
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Ariana
![]() Will definitely check it out!! Congrats on such a big accomplishment happyface |
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Ariana
![]() Next time get actual concrete proof and then no one can deny the allegations. Like others have said, you need to move on. |
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Ariana
![]() So funny how she assumes daycare providers: A) Are not also parents and B) Do not work full time or have spouses that work full time :lol::lol: |
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Ariana
![]() I always say “yeah my house has tons of rules and no tv so of course they want to stay home”! Seems to work for me. In your case I would just say she is adjusting to being without her bestie, she... |
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Ariana
![]() I had a cockatiel as a child and I loved him! Yes he pooped when I let him out of his cage but it is easy to clean. I used to bathe him regularly in a bowl and he loved being dried with the hair... |
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Ariana
![]() It sounds like she wants to play but doesn’t know how to get invited into play? Maybe give her some things she can say, asking to play or asking for a toy etc. There are a ton of kids like this who... |
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Ariana
![]() I also find boys want to “work” so giving them chores and making them help you do things works brilliantly! |
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Ariana
![]() Oh goodness I am so sorry this happened to you :( Whenever I read a bad review I always see what the business owner has to say and if they make logical sense then I never ever believe the bad... |
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Ariana
![]() I would immediately implement a health screening tool before admittance. Some providers here have made online ones that parents must answer before entering the home. ANY covid symptom is exclusion... |
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Ariana
![]() I correct by repeating the statement with the correct grammar but like I am asking a question. I don’t get the child to repeat as a SLP told me not to do that. Johnny “Her is going outside... |
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Ariana
![]() Good for you! Such disrespect to deliberately put everyone at risk and try to hide it. |
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Ariana
![]() I like bringing this stuff up face to face as it gives them less time to think of a response! I would have said “sally keeps talking about her teachers at daycare, is she in daycare?” and see what... |
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Ariana
![]() I don’t typically do product art or adult lead art unless it is Christmas or during craft week in the summer. My go to is always collages. Glue and any and all types of materials. Kids love glue! ... |
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Ariana
![]() I would start scheduling one on one time with her and then you can differentiate by saying it is “time to play now” vs “its mommy cuddle time now”. She is 4 so keep it simple but definitely set... |
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Ariana
![]() It sounds like you learned some valuable lessons and thankfully have a chance to work with little ones again! Best of luck :) I reported abuse and similarly nothing was done. That teacher got... |
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Ariana
![]() Just a note that anything over 30 is not really true! SPF 50 doesn’t really exist. |
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Ariana
![]() Sleep training! Get the book The Sleep Easy Solution and do what they book says. Total life saver! He has to stay in his bed no matter what. Let him cry for 30 minutes, then when he wakes up... |
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Ariana
![]() My portfolios are basically milestones based on each developmental domain. It includes the milestone domain and a picture of the child engaged in the activity with an explanation and I do them... |
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Ariana
![]() I don’t really do themes and my circle time is pretty flexible depending on what the kids are into. I follow an emergent curriculum. There is a lady on FB that goes thrift shopping for all kinds of... |
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Ariana
![]() Breastfeeding is natural and normal and anyone who has an issue with it can go elsewhere! :ouch: |
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Ariana
![]() I feel like home providers will be exempt, they are here in my City. Who can enforce someone wearing a mask in their own house?! |
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Ariana
![]() Wow :eek: who doesn’t feed their kid until 9:15am?? My kids are fed as soon as they wake up. |
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Ariana
![]() I serve snack at 9:30am after everyone has arrived. Makes it much easier! |
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Ariana
![]() THIS! Somehow he is learning that he is a special snowflake that needs special privileges. I would be shutting that down really fast. Quiet time during daycare (GROUP CARE) happens at nap time and... |