Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
03-06-2020, 11:48 AM
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,393
I agree with what the other posters said. But I...
I agree with what the other posters said. But I will also add, why not let him experience a whole day or two at daycare to see how he does? Perhaps the excitement, activity, and routine of daycare...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-17-2020, 06:22 AM
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Replies: 10
Views: 868
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-07-2020, 01:04 PM
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Replies: 26
Views: 2,023
I guess my advice would be to add direction to...
I guess my advice would be to add direction to his day and gradually reduce it. You could address it with the parents,but they will not change if it is working for them. Make a picture schedule and...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-07-2020, 12:59 PM
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Replies: 26
Views: 2,023
I have seen a few similar posts in the past...
I have seen a few similar posts in the past months and have commented that I also had a kid just like this when I was doing daycare. I honestly think a lot of kids "present" with a ASD or another...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-02-2019, 08:46 AM
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Replies: 6,211
Views: 708,165
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
11-09-2019, 06:39 AM
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,064
Before I quit daycare I had 2 moms doing this...
Before I quit daycare I had 2 moms doing this with their babies! They were always commenting on how huge their babies were, when in fact they were on the smaller size for their ages. They also had...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
09-16-2019, 09:23 AM
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,910
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
09-06-2019, 09:59 AM
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Replies: 35
Views: 2,357
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
09-06-2019, 08:58 AM
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Replies: 35
Views: 2,357
Before I quit daycare,I had a child just like...
Before I quit daycare,I had a child just like this. When I would tell him to get a toy, he would either ignore me or cry. When he would finally get a toy, he would not play with it. He would just...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
08-26-2019, 11:27 AM
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Replies: 118
Views: 8,312
I think I'm totally missing this argument. The...
I think I'm totally missing this argument. The only reason I had a wait list was because I had more people interested in spots than I had spots available. I don't see how pricing people out of my...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-28-2019, 01:10 PM
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,300
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-05-2019, 07:56 AM
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Replies: 6,211
Views: 708,165
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-27-2019, 03:17 PM
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Replies: 6,211
Views: 708,165
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-20-2019, 06:49 AM
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,358
I also think you should do a letter or email. I...
I also think you should do a letter or email. I just closed my daycare and it was difficult. I didn't have a good excuse like moving either. I just didn't want to do it anymore. I had the letter in...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-14-2019, 02:43 PM
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Replies: 5
Views: 785
Thanks,it wasn't terrible. I had just this one...
Thanks,it wasn't terrible. I had just this one boy left for the whole week but my school aged kids were home making it hard for him to nap. He was his normal crabby self this morning and I feel so...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-14-2019, 12:49 PM
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Replies: 5
Views: 785
Last Day
Today is my last day as a formal daycare provider! I will be continuing to watch my favorite family for a while, but will be operating more as a stay at home mom/ homeschool type and not mess with...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-07-2019, 07:05 AM
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Replies: 6
Views: 979
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-29-2019, 07:54 AM
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Replies: 6,211
Views: 708,165
Things that make you go... :confused: Dad drops...
Things that make you go... :confused: Dad drops off in jammies today. He is too sick to go to work. Then proceeds to tell me he has the same thing dcb has... Hmm. You are too sick for work and need...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-23-2019, 01:50 PM
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Replies: 21
Views: 1,565
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-22-2019, 10:13 AM
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Replies: 32
Views: 2,708
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-22-2019, 06:50 AM
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Replies: 6,211
Views: 708,165
Started my morning off with a big ol poop smear...
Started my morning off with a big ol poop smear across my carpet. I was getting the new diaper ready when he scooted across the floor on his butt causing poop to ooze out of his diaper and grind into...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-16-2019, 11:43 AM
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,974
Aw poor girl! I hate that potty training has to...
Aw poor girl! I hate that potty training has to be so all or nothing for some people! My middle daughter was fully trained for pee but asked for a pull up to poop for a good 6 months. I totally let...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-14-2019, 06:37 PM
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,592
I don't let my daycare kids have screen time at...
I don't let my daycare kids have screen time at all and wouldn't allow other people's children to be exposed to this in my home. But times are different now and I see nothing wrong with my own kids...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-14-2019, 06:29 PM
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Replies: 3
Views: 732
No. When a child is sick,they need to be...
No. When a child is sick,they need to be comfortable in their home. HFM can be really uncomfortable and they will need the attention of a parent or someone who can give them 1:1. It won't be good for...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-09-2019, 02:27 PM
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Replies: 141
Views: 40,205
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-29-2019, 11:08 AM
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,042
The first week I did not. They had a rough week...
The first week I did not. They had a rough week being in and out of the hospital with a family member so I figured it was oversight and was willing to let it go since they've never had issues and I...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-29-2019, 10:06 AM
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,042
Contract Predicament
I kind of vented about this in the venting thread, but thinking this through more, I need a little advice about something I might have gotten myself into.
I offered one teacher family a very...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-29-2019, 08:47 AM
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Replies: 6,211
Views: 708,165
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-26-2019, 02:13 PM
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,392
I have had families like this too. I guess we...
I have had families like this too. I guess we can't win. Either one extreme or the other! :lol: I don't think I've had one family straight down the middle yet. I'm not even judging, it's just so...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-26-2019, 01:40 PM
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,392
Parents Anxious for Their Babies to Be Big Kids
Not really a complaint, just an observation I've had with my last few baby families and curious if you've seen the same or if this is typical or a newer phenomenon since I've only been in business...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-19-2019, 08:46 AM
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,050
I think it's clear that mom is not that...
I think it's clear that mom is not that interested in potty training him anymore and I would follow her lead and put him back in diapers. It's not your job to do the leg work, especially since he is...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-17-2019, 08:27 AM
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Replies: 6,211
Views: 708,165
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-10-2019, 06:53 AM
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,073
My daughter who is 2.5 just potty trained this...
My daughter who is 2.5 just potty trained this way. I was keeping her in diapers because she would not keep them dry even though she was able to use the toilet when I asked her. I put her in undies...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-09-2019, 12:02 PM
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,932
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-20-2019, 08:51 AM
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,225
I agree it's a sleep issue! I have this kid too...
I agree it's a sleep issue! I have this kid too and it was getting to the point I dreaded him every day. I started putting him to bed as soon as he arrives. He doesn't always fall asleep, but he gets...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-15-2019, 06:16 PM
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Replies: 21
Views: 1,890
I don't answer. If they have a question for me,...
I don't answer. If they have a question for me, they ask. I have a parent who would talk to his baby like that, and when dcb didn't answer (obviously) dcd would turn to me and say "so DID he have a...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-13-2019, 03:25 PM
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Replies: 8
Views: 879
I don't have much advice. It could just be that...
I don't have much advice. It could just be that he hasn't been there very long. Just came here to tell you this has been the norm lately for babies in my care. They seem pretty normal at first when I...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-12-2019, 10:18 AM
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,112
I had a parent like this and ended up terming...
I had a parent like this and ended up terming over it. It ended up being a daily thing that her daughter said or did something disturbing at home and wondered if I knew where she would have seen or...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-11-2019, 06:36 AM
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Replies: 6,211
Views: 708,165
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-08-2019, 10:10 AM
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Replies: 6,211
Views: 708,165
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-08-2019, 06:37 AM
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Replies: 2
Views: 762
Baby Never Used to Cry, Now Cries All Day
I've watched this baby since he was 3 months, now he is almost 1. He made it through the trial period beautifully. Never cried just to cry, only when he needed something. Since he turned 11 months,...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-07-2019, 02:54 PM
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Replies: 6,211
Views: 708,165
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-07-2019, 07:47 AM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,263
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-07-2019, 07:36 AM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,263
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-07-2019, 07:20 AM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,263
Thank you both. The child went to the Dr...
Thank you both. The child went to the Dr yesterday but Dr did not give any medications or breathing treatments and just told Mom to observe. I just didn't even think of following up because when mom...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-07-2019, 07:02 AM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,263
Have You Excluded for Bronchiolitis?
I have a 6 month old diagnosed with bronchiolitis. Everything I'm reading says it could take weeks for breathing to go back to normal. Obviously I can't exclude that long, or would you? Need some...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-06-2019, 02:18 PM
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Replies: 3
Views: 762
No suggestions. I have the same kid only 11...
No suggestions. I have the same kid only 11 months old. There is no calm/happy/content. Only on the move/fussy/crying. Luckily I have the option of giving him his own nap room, so we've been working...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-05-2019, 11:55 AM
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,123
In my state those crib covers are prohibited. I...
In my state those crib covers are prohibited. I use sleep sacks for my crib jumpers who aren't old enough to stay on a cot, though I think that may be prohibited in some states for older kids so you...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-02-2019, 11:51 AM
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Replies: 10
Views: 905
This sounds like my sensitive little guy. He is...
This sounds like my sensitive little guy. He is also 2. I don't make him do anything. He is invited to do our more structured activities and he either comes or not. When parents ask why he doesn't...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-26-2019, 01:38 PM
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,276
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-26-2019, 12:59 PM
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,276
Ideally BC, I would like them to give me a...
Ideally BC, I would like them to give me a schedule like, Mon:7:30-5, TUE: 8:30:2 Wed: 7:30-4, etc...
But instead on Sunday they schedule me everyday 7:30-5 but then just actually use me when they...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-26-2019, 12:53 PM
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,276
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-26-2019, 12:29 PM
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,276
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-26-2019, 12:26 PM
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,276
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-26-2019, 12:12 PM
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,276
Parents Who Use You as a Babysitter
I know we've talked a lot about what parents do when after they drop off is no big deal as long as they pay and pick up on time. I'm usually in the camp of just not caring. I'm curious what your...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-25-2019, 03:11 PM
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Replies: 6,211
Views: 708,165
People who can't (or won't) take a hint are the...
People who can't (or won't) take a hint are the worst kind of people. I have kept track recently of the number of times my neighbor has asked for her daughter to come play at my house after school...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-22-2019, 01:38 PM
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Replies: 5
Views: 950
Thanks for that input! He doesn't eat nearly as...
Thanks for that input! He doesn't eat nearly as delicately, but I'll take it!:lol: His style is more of a 'open mouth as wide as you can with as much on the utensil as possible,spill half of it down...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-22-2019, 10:56 AM
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Replies: 5
Views: 950
Developmentally Appropriate Feeding Skills
Google is not helping! Is it developmentally appropriate for a 2 year old to still be flipping the spoon or fork upside down before it enters his mouth so that he can scrape the food off with his...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-21-2019, 07:25 AM
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,190
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-21-2019, 06:20 AM
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,190
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-20-2019, 04:44 PM
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,190
No that's ok it's my fault! I wish I could do...
No that's ok it's my fault! I wish I could do what you do. I have my own kids here who are school age and it's really tough to have a smooth morning when I don't know who is coming when and I have a...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-20-2019, 04:14 PM
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,190
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-20-2019, 03:46 PM
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,190
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-13-2019, 05:30 AM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,266
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-13-2019, 05:25 AM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,266
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-12-2019, 03:25 PM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,266
Leniency for New Parents for Weather?
We've had some really crappy weather lately even for Michigan. For weather I try to give a 5 minute buffer since I'm usually not going anywhere anyways in bad stuff. But when all my parents are in a...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-12-2019, 06:58 AM
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Replies: 6,211
Views: 708,165
Got snapped at by a dcm today when I tried to...
Got snapped at by a dcm today when I tried to hurry her out the door because she was late to drop off and I had to get my kids out to the bus stop. She sees my kids dressed and standing there waiting...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-08-2019, 06:28 AM
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Replies: 14
Views: 985
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-07-2019, 09:48 AM
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Replies: 14
Views: 985
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-07-2019, 09:46 AM
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Replies: 14
Views: 985
Like, they'll often tell me Wednesday that they...
Like, they'll often tell me Wednesday that they won't be coming Thursday. Then Thursday comes and they change their mind saying they're coming anyway. I can't stop them from doing that because they...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-07-2019, 09:41 AM
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Replies: 14
Views: 985
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-07-2019, 09:34 AM
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Replies: 14
Views: 985
Thank you! How do I handle or charge when they...
Thank you! How do I handle or charge when they say they are picking up early but change it to the normal time later? Like my parent today who changed her pick up drop off time 4 times today. I'm...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-07-2019, 09:19 AM
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Replies: 14
Views: 985
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-07-2019, 09:11 AM
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Replies: 14
Views: 985
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-05-2019, 11:07 AM
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,789
Ok! I haven't paid for this year yet so I have...
Ok! I haven't paid for this year yet so I have nothing right now. Since I've heard such bad things about KK I've been looking into other things, but I'm getting cold feet because I was just so used...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-05-2019, 10:37 AM
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,789
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-31-2019, 07:28 PM
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,425
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-29-2019, 11:11 AM
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,667
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-29-2019, 09:45 AM
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Replies: 19
Views: 1,340
I know not everyone agrees with this or can...
I know not everyone agrees with this or can afford it, but I give my teacher families a slight discount on their tuition with the understanding that they stay home on snow days and school vacations....
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-29-2019, 07:04 AM
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,789
Minute Menu?
I know I'm way behind the times..
I started using minute Menu in 2014 I believe. I had heard that it was switching over to kid kare but renewed my subscription through minute menu last year anyway...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-28-2019, 05:49 AM
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Replies: 6,211
Views: 708,165
We're in the middle of a huge snowstorm with...
We're in the middle of a huge snowstorm with blowing snow. I offered to credit today if people stayed home as I can't keep up with snow removal and it's only going to get worse as the day goes on....
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-25-2019, 07:09 AM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,659
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-23-2019, 02:27 PM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,361
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-23-2019, 01:31 PM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,361
I had this same issue I wrote about a few weeks...
I had this same issue I wrote about a few weeks back. My dcb is close in age. The only thing that has worked is I immediately take him from dcd and shoo him out the door. I then have dcb take all his...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-22-2019, 01:22 PM
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,045
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-22-2019, 01:09 PM
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,045
Late Charges for The Early Pick Up Myth?
How awful of a daycare provider would I be if when a parent tells me they're picking up early that I charge them if they aren't here by the time they tell me? I have one parent really bad about this...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-21-2019, 01:30 PM
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,250
I have once before with my SIL. My nephew was...
I have once before with my SIL. My nephew was very hard and my mental health would have suffered with another one of her babies. I'm also at that point now. I have 2 infants and when these families...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-16-2019, 01:55 PM
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,425
It's not hard for them, but it's even less hard...
It's not hard for them, but it's even less hard for them to give you that job. I don't think you need to explain it, they won't hear you anyway. You put it out there and they can either hop on board...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-15-2019, 06:22 AM
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,636
Sick, Unhappy Babies
I used to prefer infants over preschool aged children and always kept my infant spots full. I love the age and felt they were overall pretty easy to care for. Eat, change, play, sleep, repeat.
My...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-14-2019, 09:30 AM
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Replies: 2
Views: 790
Michigan Friends, New Law Help
My friend had a family daycare for a few years and shut down before the new law changes went into affect. She has since reapplied and got her letter in September that she could reopen. They did not...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-11-2019, 10:23 AM
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Replies: 6
Views: 988
DCB Won't Eat Unless Prompted
Dcb 1.5 (I post about him a lot) came back from vacation unable to eat unless I tell him to. He will sit and look at his food until I say "take a bite" which then he will spoon up the food himself...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-09-2019, 04:28 PM
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,210
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-07-2019, 09:02 AM
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,878
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-07-2019, 08:45 AM
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,878
Do You Think This is OK to Say?
I have a dcb 1.5 who comes in every morning screaming and the parents don't do anything to stop it until I physically take him from dcp and tell him to be quiet. He immediately stops when I do this....
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-22-2018, 06:25 AM
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Replies: 41
Views: 2,203
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-20-2018, 05:36 AM
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Replies: 4
Views: 1,385
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-18-2018, 07:09 PM
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Replies: 10
Views: 995
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-18-2018, 07:50 AM
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Replies: 10
Views: 995
Oh duh! That's a great idea! I'm not sure about...
Oh duh! That's a great idea! I'm not sure about the nipple. DCM just switched to 2s right after starting here and she threw away the 1s. Maybe I'll just go grab some at the store and see if that helps
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-18-2018, 07:35 AM
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Replies: 10
Views: 995
Right now dcm sends me prepared bottles because...
Right now dcm sends me prepared bottles because she mixes breast milk with formula. So she sends 4 6oz bottles. The nipple is size 2 but I do paced feeding with her so that's not a huge issue I don't...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-18-2018, 06:50 AM
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Replies: 10
Views: 995
Too Much Food?
Does 6 oz of formula mixed with breast milk for a 2.5month old every 2-3 hours sound like a lot of food? Baby downs the bottles but then spits most of it back up. If I give baby less, dcm gets really...
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