Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
08-09-2019, 01:26 PM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,743
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-05-2019, 04:40 PM
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,141
First thing I would do is take that out of your...
First thing I would do is take that out of your contract for the provider having to give notice. I like to give clients a heads up, but in the case of a client I just want to be done with, I want the...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-03-2019, 12:57 PM
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Replies: 4
Views: 1,180
I would just tell her that you have a spot for...
I would just tell her that you have a spot for the toddler, but you cannot guarantee a spot for the baby come November. Unfortunately, you won't have that information until closer to October. She...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-03-2019, 11:20 AM
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,028
I don't think you're overreacting. I would have...
I don't think you're overreacting. I would have done the same thing. If your child is that upset, and it's an abnormal reaction for him, then something in the environment has changed. Bringing it to...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-18-2019, 09:41 PM
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,256
I wouldn't rock to sleep. I would feed, play,...
I wouldn't rock to sleep. I would feed, play, change diaper, lay down for nap. It would be consistently the same routine every single day, and every single nap. I would let her cry and work it out. I...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-18-2019, 09:23 PM
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,352
I would offer the position to the temporary...
I would offer the position to the temporary family as a drop-in position. Your current Mom is paying for the position to be available in January. The temporary family is paying to use the open spot...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-17-2019, 03:20 PM
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,967
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-26-2019, 12:20 PM
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Replies: 6
Views: 834
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-19-2019, 10:47 AM
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,041
If he was truly "potty trained", wearing...
If he was truly "potty trained", wearing underwear or diapers wouldn't make any difference. It's not confusing. He is not ready and I would put them back in diapers or pull up until he is able to...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-17-2019, 05:59 PM
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,029
I used it as a deterrent. If your kid has a...
I used it as a deterrent. If your kid has a fever, keep them home and you will miss less work. If you bring them, you will not only miss a day due to having to come get them early, but you will not...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-16-2019, 08:02 AM
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,308
I agree with this. She was a volunteer in your...
I agree with this. She was a volunteer in your child care facility, so her payment is the responsibility of her program. Your director really has no right to ask her to return and volunteer more time...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-12-2019, 08:40 AM
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Replies: 30
Views: 2,341
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-12-2019, 08:29 AM
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Replies: 35
Views: 2,204
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-05-2019, 11:03 AM
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,676
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-22-2019, 09:21 AM
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Replies: 40
Views: 3,258
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-22-2019, 09:06 AM
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Replies: 21
Views: 1,987
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-22-2019, 07:19 AM
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Replies: 40
Views: 3,258
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-19-2019, 07:08 AM
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Replies: 43
Views: 3,156
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-12-2019, 09:13 PM
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Replies: 26
Views: 2,143
No. Vaccinations are an optional form of...
No. Vaccinations are an optional form of preventative medicine. They may be required for some jobs and to attend public school or daycare in some states, but they are not mandatory to exist. The...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-02-2019, 03:05 PM
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Replies: 23
Views: 1,536
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-26-2019, 07:07 AM
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,959
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-13-2019, 02:42 PM
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Replies: 31
Views: 2,634
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-12-2019, 08:36 AM
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Replies: 25
Views: 1,979
I think in order to set realistic expectations...
I think in order to set realistic expectations for babies and children, you need to have a good amount of experience caring for them and understanding their needs, so I rarely expect realistic goals...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-12-2019, 07:43 AM
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Replies: 25
Views: 1,979
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
02-08-2019, 07:42 AM
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Replies: 27
Views: 2,229
These are the red flags in my opinion:
-...
These are the red flags in my opinion:
- this will be her third day care in less than 3 years. Most likely, the mom is seeking a daycare where she has complete control, which doesn't exist. The...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
01-30-2019, 08:45 AM
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Replies: 19
Views: 1,329
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-23-2018, 09:04 PM
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,099
I used to get cold sores a lot and they are...
I used to get cold sores a lot and they are contagious until that sore is basically gone (scab falls off naturally to reveal new skin). They are actually contagious even without a sore present, but...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-17-2018, 08:21 PM
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,504
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-13-2018, 06:58 AM
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Replies: 21
Views: 1,578
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-11-2018, 03:11 PM
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Replies: 22
Views: 2,253
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Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
12-07-2018, 07:09 AM
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Replies: 343
Views: 187,292
So you DO agree that childcare providers should...
So you DO agree that childcare providers should get paid days off. Glad you got your negativity out before admitting you actually agree with paid time off. Also, you should tell your provider they...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-03-2018, 08:13 PM
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,159
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
12-01-2018, 01:02 PM
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Replies: 28
Views: 3,508
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
11-21-2018, 09:49 AM
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Replies: 24
Views: 2,916
With my first daycare, I had mostly kids that...
With my first daycare, I had mostly kids that lived on the same street as me. One of them lived two houses down and I only watched their child 2 days a week. She would consistently show up 15 minutes...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
11-20-2018, 07:40 AM
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,474
I agree. If they are assaulting other kids and...
I agree. If they are assaulting other kids and putting their lives in danger, I would call the police and request their presence. I would also alert the school to the situation. This was a while...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
11-19-2018, 03:03 PM
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,597
If they make you uncomfortable, as Meeko said,...
If they make you uncomfortable, as Meeko said, you have a reason for terminating. You don't have to spell that out for them, but it's still a reason and quite honestly you don't even need a reason. I...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
11-19-2018, 02:59 PM
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Replies: 3
Views: 1,069
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
11-19-2018, 02:54 PM
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Replies: 27
Views: 3,948
If you read through the archives you will find...
If you read through the archives you will find numerous post identical to the one above by unregistered users. They bring back old posts (this one is from 2013!) and are unnecessarily rude, as in...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
11-15-2018, 09:33 AM
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,456
I know it might not be possible concerning...
I know it might not be possible concerning licensing, but maybe a stroller for her to just sit in off the ground? At least until she starts to lighten up or get a better hang of walking? Outside...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
11-15-2018, 08:29 AM
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,988
That was my thought too. It's not so much about...
That was my thought too. It's not so much about them being able to get to my house to drop off, as it is about them being able to get to my house to pick up on time. As well as making sure emergency...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
11-15-2018, 08:23 AM
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Replies: 22
Views: 1,585
I know a lot of providers have that policy per...
I know a lot of providers have that policy per family, but I have it per child. The main thing I want to avoid is a parent dropping off, picking up for an appointment, and then dropping off again....
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
11-14-2018, 12:38 PM
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,101
I had a little guy that regressed like that...
I had a little guy that regressed like that around 6 to 7 months I think it was. Basically, he started waking in the middle of the night more frequently and mom pretty much just let him nurse...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
11-11-2018, 05:22 PM
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Replies: 31
Views: 2,181
I took a second job in the restaurant industry...
I took a second job in the restaurant industry and it is crazy what people get for assistance. Mom of 3, dad lives in different state(she said he pays no support), and our state pays $900 month in...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
11-10-2018, 06:03 PM
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Replies: 27
Views: 3,552
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
11-06-2018, 08:42 AM
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Replies: 22
Views: 1,752
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-31-2018, 02:51 PM
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,858
I think your response was really great. You...
I think your response was really great. You removed him from the group, since he is not safe to be around other people yet. You still offered the food, just with no access to other kids. I think that...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-25-2018, 02:01 PM
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,236
:lol::lol: Just saying what I think we may all...
:lol::lol: Just saying what I think we may all have been thinking:D, but I added to my previous post because this mom hits the nail on the head..."Sarah Bregal, 33, of Baltimore, Maryland, belongs...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-25-2018, 01:39 PM
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,236
I will be judging mcjudgerson over here. She...
I will be judging mcjudgerson over here. She needs to drop her baby off in between naps so she can get work done without interruption. Meaning she only cares for their child when they're sleeping, or...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-25-2018, 01:34 PM
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Replies: 31
Views: 1,988
So I feel a little differently. I'm unsure of...
So I feel a little differently. I'm unsure of OP's state or licensing guidelines and I think the parent has a right to see where the child will take their nap, but not at actual nap time when other...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-25-2018, 10:52 AM
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Replies: 19
Views: 1,864
That has to be missing the word NOT...
That has to be missing the word NOT right??:confused: How is it satisfactory to use unsafe sleep practices? And the outdoor thing really bothers me. They only take them outside when they're in...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-22-2018, 10:00 PM
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Replies: 52
Views: 2,514
Unregistered needs to chill.
I wonder if dad...
Unregistered needs to chill.
I wonder if dad is mad because mom knew about the discrepancy and used the money elsewhere and now they are short?:confused::rolleyes:
Regardless, its money you are...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-19-2018, 09:50 PM
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Replies: 52
Views: 2,514
I would be more apt to notice the income...
I would be more apt to notice the income discrepancy than the payment side. That being said, $350 is a lot either way, so I agree with you...I think they noticed, never said anything (maybe just...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-18-2018, 07:43 AM
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,443
I would probably say that waiving the two week...
I would probably say that waiving the two week notice in lieu of one weeks payment was your way of compromise since they had not started yet, yet you have held a spot for X weeks. If they would like...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-12-2018, 02:46 PM
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,332
I agree. I kind of feel like if a daycare kid...
I agree. I kind of feel like if a daycare kid couldn't come with the same symptoms or illness, then why should we make an exception for our own children. I know in some people's homes, they are able...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-11-2018, 09:20 AM
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,362
What time does he wake up though. The schedule...
What time does he wake up though. The schedule starts from waking, so if he is up at 6 or 6:30, I would feed right at arrival (ideally he would be dropped off already fed), then first nap would be...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-11-2018, 09:00 AM
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,362
What kind of schedule is he on? I find an eat,...
What kind of schedule is he on? I find an eat, play, sleep schedule is best and for a five month old, they would be on a 3-4 hr schedule. The more consistent, the better. Putting to bed awake, and...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-11-2018, 07:10 AM
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Replies: 28
Views: 2,459
I don't think you're wrong! I'm glad you got it...
I don't think you're wrong! I'm glad you got it worked out with Mom! I make it very clear to parents that I provide care for Working Families. Almost all of my families have been word of mouth, so...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-11-2018, 06:32 AM
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Replies: 11
Views: 2,217
You sound like you want permission to terminate...
You sound like you want permission to terminate the child... Well you have my permission, so do what you feel is best!:hug: for me, when she mentioned the other day care, I would have asked her if...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-04-2018, 10:57 AM
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,337
I totally agree with the writer! It isn't just...
I totally agree with the writer! It isn't just about food either. I've always practiced "authoritative parenting" with all my kids (daycare kids too). I give choice within the boundaries I set. ...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
10-04-2018, 08:02 AM
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Replies: 19
Views: 1,451
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
09-28-2018, 12:03 PM
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Replies: 18
Views: 2,225
Maybe just have a talk at pick up. "Hey dad, I...
Maybe just have a talk at pick up. "Hey dad, I just wanted to talk to you about Jack. He is so doing well here and is super busy and has a great time! Since we are so busy, he could definitely use...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
09-14-2018, 02:30 PM
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Replies: 32
Views: 3,361
I'm not sure if they breached contract. But I...
I'm not sure if they breached contract. But I guess I would seek out what it is I'm looking for...Money? Retribution for your childs pain and suffering? Is it worth it to pursue? Why did they get...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
09-14-2018, 12:36 PM
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Replies: 32
Views: 3,361
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
08-27-2018, 06:09 AM
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Replies: 20
Views: 2,447
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
08-25-2018, 11:10 AM
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,050
I hope you dont take offense, but I've never...
I hope you dont take offense, but I've never really understood this way of potty training. If it starts before a year, that means you spend well over a year "training" the child. The amount of work...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
08-16-2018, 04:14 PM
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Replies: 50
Views: 2,376
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
08-16-2018, 03:20 PM
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Replies: 50
Views: 2,376
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
08-16-2018, 01:40 PM
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Replies: 50
Views: 2,376
Trust me, I get it. I avoided licensing (I...
Trust me, I get it. I avoided licensing (I operate legally in my state) because I dont want people in my business. I'm not comfortable with giving socials or fingerprints, or retina scans, ect. I...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
08-16-2018, 12:49 PM
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Replies: 8
Views: 847
I would enroll but just let them know, that...
I would enroll but just let them know, that without payment, you cant hold a spot for the infant so they need to make sure you have room when the baby comes around. If you have four spots right now,...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
08-16-2018, 11:43 AM
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Replies: 50
Views: 2,376
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
08-16-2018, 10:37 AM
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Replies: 50
Views: 2,376
I completely get it. I felt the same, but now,...
I completely get it. I felt the same, but now, I'm pretty sure that train left the station a long time ago. Kind of like when people won't buy things online, because they are worried about identity...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
08-08-2018, 12:56 PM
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Replies: 48
Views: 3,251
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
08-06-2018, 10:28 AM
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,090
I guess doubling the holding fee is not that...
I guess doubling the holding fee is not that impressive of an offer to me. Holding a spot for over 2 months would be a huge financial hit for me (over $1400), so unless she offered to pay for the...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
08-01-2018, 12:44 PM
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Replies: 195
Views: 14,373
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-31-2018, 12:06 PM
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,085
If you are terming immediately, then you should...
If you are terming immediately, then you should apply the fee to the last two weeks of care you have provided. If you would like to provide a two week notice, then apply it to the next two weeks of...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-30-2018, 10:34 PM
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,821
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-25-2018, 10:05 AM
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Replies: 29
Views: 1,689
Yes! If we were that lucky guy in CA who just...
Yes! If we were that lucky guy in CA who just won $500 million, I'd quit in a heartbeat and we would travel, volunteer, enjoy life. I would go back to school with no financial pressure. I would...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-24-2018, 02:46 PM
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Replies: 93
Views: 5,777
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-24-2018, 02:01 PM
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Replies: 93
Views: 5,777
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-24-2018, 12:25 PM
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Replies: 93
Views: 5,777
I just want to add that for me, daycare WAS...
I just want to add that for me, daycare WAS unique in how much I took it so personally. As a server, I may judge, but I really don't care. I am an equal opportunity tip taker!:lol: Everyone gets...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-24-2018, 11:56 AM
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Replies: 93
Views: 5,777
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-20-2018, 05:43 AM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,722
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-18-2018, 09:58 AM
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,802
I totally agree. If she were black or latino,...
I totally agree. If she were black or latino, she may have had a higher chance, but if she was a man, I think she would have been sentenced much more harshly and spent way more time in prison. It...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-18-2018, 09:02 AM
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,802
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-17-2018, 10:22 PM
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,802
There were no victim impact stories at her...
There were no victim impact stories at her sentencing. That tells me a lot and many of her daycare families support the decision. This was a major cry for help. Like, a huge cry for help. I dont...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-17-2018, 10:44 AM
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Replies: 42
Views: 5,441
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-13-2018, 12:07 PM
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Replies: 27
Views: 2,598
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
07-13-2018, 06:34 AM
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Replies: 27
Views: 2,598
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-28-2018, 09:31 AM
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,403
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-26-2018, 10:29 AM
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Replies: 34
Views: 2,851
I guess I was thinking of other providers who...
I guess I was thinking of other providers who must have a license, like doctors usually hang their degrees and license to practice medicine on their office walls. Or nail/beauty salons, restaurants,...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-20-2018, 01:56 PM
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Replies: 195
Views: 14,373
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-20-2018, 01:28 PM
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Replies: 195
Views: 14,373
So if the kid dies, we feel bad and don't...
So if the kid dies, we feel bad and don't prosecute. But if the kid almost dies, then they are obviously guilty and should be prosecuted. :confused: It is the one area where death seems to bring a...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-19-2018, 09:35 AM
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,304
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-18-2018, 06:31 AM
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Replies: 32
Views: 2,402
I'm the same, except I prefer almond or goat...
I'm the same, except I prefer almond or goat milk, but the kids all drink water. My kids just dont care for it much, except in cereal sometimes. Dck's seem to get PLENTY of milk at home. It seems...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-13-2018, 09:49 PM
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Replies: 65
Views: 80,455
The people doing the biggest diserbic e to...
The people doing the biggest diserbic e to children these days are the parents. You can't have the eggs without the chickens, and in many of these cases, including the one you quoted, the chickens...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-13-2018, 11:42 AM
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,148
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-11-2018, 10:16 PM
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Replies: 112
Views: 10,278
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-11-2018, 08:07 AM
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Replies: 112
Views: 10,278
I have learned that every daycare operate so...
I have learned that every daycare operate so differently, and they all have such different set-ups, so their policies generally reflect rules to make their job go as smoothly as possible. In this...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-01-2018, 12:23 PM
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Replies: 25
Views: 1,815
I would combine these two. Either bring cash or...
I would combine these two. Either bring cash or expect that close of business day on Monday will be the latest deposit. My guess is that she is trying to plan for checks to come out so she doesn't...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-23-2018, 05:06 PM
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Replies: 195
Views: 14,373
I have lived in Texas and North Dakota. I feel...
I have lived in Texas and North Dakota. I feel like these incidents happen throughout the year, but are reported more i the summer because, as Dave said, it is much easier to die from the heat in a...
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