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![]() Remind him to be grateful for what he has whenever he says something is not fair. He might just get as tired of you saying, "be grateful" whenever he says "it's not fair." |
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![]() Yes, they ALL paid on time! But, I gave them all notice today. I am done with all of this! Closing down on August 9th. |
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![]() Well I did it! In two weeks I will no longer have my daycare. The children were wonderful, but I just couldn't deal with the financial side and enforcing rules with parents. Everyone got their... |
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![]() Those pictures look exactly like what my son used to get. We did allergy testing and he was allergic to dust mites! That's what was doing it for the most part. He also broke out like that with... |
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![]() I'm the OP So a dcm sees the note on the door (I changed it to Reminder: Payments are due by Friday) and she asked if that note was for her. I told her that only one of my parents pays on time... |
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![]() Reminder Payments are due on the Friday Before the next week of care As of today, late fees of $10 per calendar day Will be charged. Your child will not be taken into care |
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![]() I set up my new rate sheet starting September 1!!! I am currently charging by the hour, but come September it will be by set number of days for the week. 5 Days - $200 4 Days - $180 3 Days -... |
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![]() So sorry you are going through this. Can you edit in some paragraphs.... kinda hard to read through it all. |
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![]() This is what dcm is probably thinking to justify her request 1. The kids are happy where they are for now and I'm busy getting ready for this VBS so I'll just get my stuff done 2. Daycare... |
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![]() I have some dress up clothes and really don't like it much at all. Only because of the dressing/undressing aspect. They are on hangers up high on the pegboard so they have to ask for them. I... |
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![]() The favourite outside toy this year is a GIGANTIC 20 x 20 blue tarp. My lawn isn't completely flat, so when used with the hose (and dish soap!) I get puddles in it. The kids love it to slide on,... |
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![]() I just did my first termination yesterday, so I can relate. As others on this board would say...... NEXT!!! |
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![]() She just came to pick up dcb stuff. She didn't say a word.... man oh man is she angry at me. Man oh man, am I proud of me. |
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![]() I feel like I have been punched in the stomach. It's been coming ever since she started 2 month ago. Dcb is 19 months and has adapted very well, but mom is something else. Chronically late... |
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![]() I only barter for cash ;) I care for a dcb whose dad plows our driveway in the winter. I considered for a fleeting second about a barter with him. But, because cash is so absolute there is not... |
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![]() My whole family got it last Wednesday night. So, I called everyone that evening that I would be closing Thursday and possibly Friday as I wasn't sure how long I would be sick. Let me tell you it... |
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![]() I just got a call for 11 yo twins. My heart started racing..... until I calmly said, no thank you. My breathing is now back to normal! |
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![]() I have never enforced my late fee, so I am the wrong person to ask. My dcp's are hardly ever late. However, if it was a chronic problem I would start to charge it. So, in your case, I wouldn't. ... |
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![]() But, you don't want to be open till 6! So, don't do it.... you'll just be unhappy and we can't have that. |
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![]() I told her I will not be doing Saturdays any more. Now, I feel better. |
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![]() So a dcm calls and asks if her dcg can come "visit" on Saturday. I asked her if she wanted to talk about something. Nope, she says she got a job on Saturdays and can dcg come "visit". The... |
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![]() I wonder if they are going to sit by the phone on Monday waiting for your call :lol::lol: |
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![]() I have a 3 1/2 yo dcg that lies sometimes about washing her hands after using the rest room. I know she didn't because her hands are dry and she can't reach the paper towel. I told her I have eyes... |
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![]() You mean they want to sit in your back yard with you and hang out while you are caring for their children? Why? Did you ask them why? Because I would really like to know why? That's crazy! Why... |
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![]() I'm the OP. I've tried to call her 3 times already today. Just an answering machine. I think she knows it's me and isn't answering. |
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![]() I just remembered this..... she doesn't nap him so that he will go to bed at 6:30!!! I couldn't believe it. I couldn't help it, she got my WTF face. |
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![]() I must admit, I thought that the kids and parents you describe as hard to manage was an exaggeration. But, today I had an interview with a mom and her 3 year old boy. Wow! He was rude,... |
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![]() Yes, you have the right to your opinions. Have fun paying your fines. |
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![]() Thanks for all the replies! I think I will wait it out and see if she confronts me. I don't like drama at all. But, now I feel better prepared. Thanks for your input ladies. |
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![]() I didn`t want to hijack the Illegal Daycare thread so I thought I`d start this one. A lady in town was running an illegal daycare. She got caught and the authorities went to her house. We are... |
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![]() Well I stirred the pot. Someone's very mad at me and wrote that everyone should watch their back because I will report them. Made me smile |
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![]() If you are unlicensed and legal then I have no problem with you having your daycare.... fly at her. BUT, if you are illegal, then I don't care how many credentials you have, how much education you... |
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![]() I just posted this on the town's babysitting facebook site. I'm so frustrated with these people too. I hestitated pressing the "enter" key as this is a small town and alot of people know me. But,... |
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![]() Thanks BlackCat. They just started with the rice table.... I set my phone timer for 30 minutes. I told them that when they hear the duck quack, then they can change activity. |
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![]() I have one dcg that wants to change activities every minute! So annoying! painting, stickers, craft of any kind, story, toy, puzzle.... she wants to move from one activity to the next pronto. ... |
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![]() I couldn't bear the crying either; that's why I only do 2 years and up. I really feel for you. I don't think you need to give a reason.... parents tend to get defensive if it's about their kid. ... |
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![]() That's weird.... how could they try to pay you? How does that scenario play out? And, why would you refuse payment? I'm very sure you would have taken the payment. Witnesses? I'd ask for a... |
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![]() The dog starts barking at the window.... I look up and it's her car. Instantly I scan the room looking if everything is up to par and think about what's in the kitchen sink upstairs. I go to... |
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![]() I would definitely have a drink on her and give her a huge cheers! |
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![]() I feel so bad for the parents when they pick up their daughter. She cries bloody murder and says she doesn't want to go home. Today her mom said she wouldn't come back here if she keeps it up. Mom... |
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![]() Hi, my name is Miss J and I have a scrapbooking addiction. My husband is my enabler. My kids are the reason. I have no intention of ever stopping. Bring on the glitter! |
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![]() Only first borns get showers?!?!?! How sad. Doesn't make any sense to me. I had showers for all 4 of my children and I appreciated every single one of them. I had no part in their planning... |
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![]() People treat you how you let them. I don't think being passive aggressive and saying you're full is the way to go. She wouldn't 'learn' anything from that. She would probably believe you. Then,... |
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![]() They're family.,.... just grin and bear it once in a while. BUT, if money is not an issue maybe they can get a motel room? |
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![]() Mine is "Growing Roots and Spreading Wings." Corny, I know! |
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![]() I have reported two illegal daycares. As far as I know, one of them was shut down the next day. Not sure of the other one. I had no problem, guilt, fear, qualms or anxiety AT ALL about reporting... |
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![]() The parents can keep bringing their kids to me if they want to but I'll be squirreled away in my scrapbook room when I'm not playing with my grandchildren. :lol: |
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![]() I just did one too!! Thanks for the idea. The only fake flowers I had were poinsettias, so those are in there until I can get to the dollar store tomorrow. The kids LOVED it! |
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![]() ahem.... I'm in my 50's and I can figure out most things. |
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![]() Don't judge me but.... I really don't want to chit chat with the parents. |
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![]() I always blame the dog.... he's always right beside me so it's easy to. |
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![]() I have no wish to do any transporting, ever. I'm a home bunny. |
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![]() Oh yes, I'm sure. I have a spotless reputation and am very respected and liked in my town. I heard it so many times even when I was trying to sell my house. Even the realtors call my house... |
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![]() Ode to Day Care Little children come to me for hugs and books and such I care for all their simple needs and I also fix them lunch. I pick up toys, I mop their spills and often dry their tears. I... |
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![]() You deserve cheesecake after all of that! Maybe TWO pieces! |
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![]() My home daycare is eight kilometers from town (population 4000)..... six minutes.... two songs! But, alot of potential customers don't want the drive to bring their kids here or even come have a... |
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![]() I don't care, either, about whether the parent/s are working or not. As long as they can be reached by phone and pay me on time, I'm ok with whatever they're doing. I am not the parent police. ... |
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![]() How odd!! Just don't check in any more. Simple as that. |
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![]() I personally don't give a hoot what parents are doing during their contracted hours. They even have no problem telling me about their bike rides, lunch dates and getting their hair done. I smile,... |
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![]() I'm the OP. I have experience caring for special needs children. I have a child with Cerebral Palsy (she's 20 now) and have worked with special needs children of all kinds (even behaviour which is... |
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![]() How could you possibly read my post and think I was judging the child?!?! |
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![]() I had an interview last week with a potential dcb and both his parents. We had a short phone interview prior and nothing was mentioned about his special needs. They enter the daycare and the... |
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![]() Great work, Marina. However, I must mention that you have 'piece of mind' in your ad. It should be 'peace of mind'. Normally I wouldn't mention it, but, as it is an advertisement, it is an error... |
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![]() I never stress about Christmas any more. NOTHING has to be perfect. Everyone will either love their gift or hate it or plan to regift it next year. Everyone will be full after Christmas dinner; if... |
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![]() My cryer took an extra step today to get attention while she was sitting in the snow crying for attention. She was upset because dcb abandoned her and the sled they were playing with together when... |
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![]() I am so frustrated with dcg. She won't try anything and comments that it's yucky. Today we had leftover chicken tetrazinni, so scrumptiously yummy comfort food. She had a fit and refused to even... |
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![]() We are not allowed to use food (or candy) as a reward or punishment for anything. I totally agree with this philosophy. IMHO, going potty is a natural function that requires no reward save an... |
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![]() Selected mutism, hmmmm..... I think I have suffered that a few times in my twenty five years of marriage. |
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![]() Today I saw him making a snow angel on spilled salt on the counter |
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![]() Great job! I'm going to post a link on my Facebook page! |
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![]() okay this just happened. I brought out the water bin filled with water beads. They play happily until she dips her foot in the water. Warning number one. Then she proceeds to break the water... |
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![]() I have a very stubborn just-turned-3 year old. She hates sharing and wants every toy the other child is playing with. When I tell her to play with something else or just continue playing with what... |
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![]() I am in the process of stowing away all of the toys!!! Each set gets a basket and is being put away high!! All big toys (one piece) will be within reach. Play kitchen stuff (I have lots) will... |
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![]() Awww, I feel for you. If you don't need the money all that bad, why don't you get a fun job? Maybe Starbucks? lol Or, you could find something mindless to do like retail where you can talk to... |
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![]() Dear OP: I feel your angst. Here's a laugh for you: http://i270.photobucket.com/albums/jj112/ShKiKeRe/jackass.jpg |
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![]() Just tell her that you have already made plans. She doesn't have to know that your plans include a nap for yourself!! |
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![]() What do you mean by 'not attached'? Does it mean you have to leave the building to find a bathroom? Or, is the bathroom far away down a long hallway? |
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![]() I beg to differ.....I have a son who is 29 (thirty next month) and I would never interfere with his and his wife's decisions. I and my friends, who are the same age as I am, would never even... |
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![]() Pinterest Advice: Organize and build/name your boards right away. Otherwise, you'll waste a lot of time re-organizing afterwards. If you're OCD, you may want to alphabetize them, too! They... |
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![]() I'm so glad!!! Did you get to talk to Judge **** afterwards? |
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![]() check the under/between the couch cushions.... I find them there all the time! Sorry you had to go through that, Dave. People suck sometimes... |
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![]() I don't think it's the other parents' business whether other children were out sick or not. The only attendance they should be worried about is their own child's in my opinion. If it's in your... |