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![]() Time to raise rates. A parent paying 154 a week is going to get half that back making their daycare bill 77 a week which would be 1.54 an hour (ten hour day) for one kid and 3.08 an hour for two. ... |
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![]() I had both doses of Moderna. Jan 4 and Feb 1 . I’m in Iowa with the worst Governor in the United States and it was super touch and go whether I could get the second one on the 28th day. In my... |
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![]() I believe she is allowed to daycare as a renter in California, so calling her landlord may or may not help. Her taking the kids off site to a park may not be an option for her either via... |
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nannyde
![]() I wouldn't be upset about her texting about him coming Friday. I would think the more the grandma has a break the quicker she is going to want the baby to just come full time to your house. Grandma... |
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nannyde
![]() It's not "help". It's work. The concept of "helping" is something women get ingrained in their brains from babies on up. I've heard thousands of times women saying "my husband is so great. He... |
Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
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nannyde
![]() True that. I always encourage any provider to read the archives on this board. Go to the back and read all the posts that have ten or more responses is a good start. You can learn to do daycare up... |
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![]() When I see a Chickenhauler post it brings me back so many memories :lol::lol::lol::lol: |
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nannyde
![]() My Aunt caught it in a nursing home. Was in the ICU Covid unit for 10 days then a regular floor. She tested negative, returned to the Nursing Home and passed two days later. She was not counted as... |
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nannyde
![]() I could never get into the QRS because I couldn’t figure any math where it would make me real money. Not singular grant money but weekly from all my clients Mo money because I was QRS level 5. I... |
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nannyde
![]() Full pound of potatoes olés from the Taco Johns. :( |
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nannyde
![]() Ugh truth for sure. One thing I do disagree with is that we have a healthcare system. We also don't have an emergency response system or a postmortem system to accommodate the ones afflicted by... |
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![]() I’m afraid of flu shots. I’ve had two in the last 20 years and I got insanely sick the next day for a week with pneumonia. I know as a nurse that it was most likely just coincidence but I went... |
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nannyde
![]() Michael, One of the things I can't get past is what are we to do with the patients who need direct in hospital care? We currently can't manage them. We don't have enough beds, vents, PPE, and well... |
Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
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nannyde
![]() He needs his own adult all day every day. Putting him in a group will mean he has to share an adult. It won’t work. When he can be put to bed wide awake and go to sleep without nursing to... |
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nannyde
![]() 👆not intended to be a funny. Not only would someone but someone’s and it would be from open to close. They do gifts either Xmas eve or Lickety Splikley an hour before the kids were due at daycare... |
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nannyde
![]() I would do a quick “tell Mommy” every time he said it. This is something between him and his parents. Has nothing to do with daycare. |
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nannyde
![]() "I don't provide service to children who don't need a FULL afternoon nap." If your child needs a shortened nap, I can't provide that service. |
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![]() I'm trying to figure out what else they could have done wrong in that picture. |
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nannyde
![]() happyfacehappyfacehappyface If she doesn't leave for ten minutes then she doesn't need to drop off until then. Maybe when she realizes she can't come in and have that kind of time with you she... |
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![]() Mom, thanks for the update. Because most viral and bacterial infections have a period of incubation and contagious before a child shows signs or symptoms of illness, it would be too risky for her to... |
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nannyde
![]() Yup Can't have a kid in my house allergic to something I don't know about. I could be exposing him/her without even knowing it. I need a copy of the allergy test results and the plan of action... |
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nannyde
![]() https://service.mattel.com/us/recall/BJD57_ivr.asp Here's the recall protocol from Mattel. ... |
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nannyde
![]() The resell on these will be huge. The price will be high. I hope for sale sites remove ads when they pop up. |
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nannyde
![]() I keep the kid in whatever they came in and just say the same thing...... "she wouldn't let me change her". Too bad you had the blow out but at least you had clothes to put her in. |
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nannyde
![]() I like bouncy seats but only the OLD school ones with the flat wide trays surrounded by a lip with attached toys and real estate to put a bunch of baby toys on. I like to rotate toys so they always... |
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![]() https://abcnews.go.com/US/pediatricians-urge-recall-fisher-price-rock-play-sleeper/story?id=62296388 I hope they ban them. I have had kids who sleep in them at night until they physically outgrow... |
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nannyde
![]() https://www.daycare.com/forum/showthread.php?t=16159&highlight=dumping post 13 dumping story |
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nannyde
![]() I'm with you on everything but dumping. I know dumping is age appropriate but I would rather they get their dump on at home. I don't want to pay a staff assistant to pick up, direct pick up, or put... |
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nannyde
![]() Ask the parents to videotape her pulling up, crusing, and doing a diaper change where she is flat. They can film that from the side so no privates show. Have them show you. Insist I have had... |
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nannyde
![]() But those may be two reasons why it is not given to children under four. The only Benadryl indication for two to four is cream and that's with Dr's orders. Their isn't a safe dosage range for... |
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nannyde
![]() A Provider gives it: https://www.foxnews.com/health/babysitter-gets-15-years-in-babys-benadryl-death 15 years A Mom gives it: ... |
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nannyde
![]() From some of the benadryl deaths I've studied the providers buy in quantity and give with liquid at lunch. Remember Sabine? I think if the parents are willing, all the other kids should be... |
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nannyde
![]() Woops didn't see that. I believe the child was picked up after afternoon nap. My suspicion is that she was given benadryl the first two days she was there too. she may have not cleared out the... |
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![]() https://www.news10.com/news/vt-news/parents-speak-about-death-of-infant-at-vt-day-care/1861070825 RUTLAND, Vt. (NEWS10) - More details are being released about the circumstances surrounding a... |
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nannyde
![]() I always ask them to video tape it so you can see it. Tell them to hide the phone so the kid can't see it and then engage them in a conversation so you can see it. I have had one kid who didn't... |
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nannyde
![]() Yup I never allow a parent to decide how much breast milk I give and when. I have them bring a jug of milk daily and I feed on demand as much as they want to fill their bellies. The guidelines... |
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nannyde
![]() Newborns and immunocompromised have to go to the doctor. That's enclosed public space. What are your feelings there? |
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nannyde
![]() https://www.skepticalraptor.com/skepticalraptorblog.php/anti-vaccine-liability-pay-harm/#more-12811 |
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![]() They look at it as a day when their child gets one to one attention all day long. It's a very positive thing to pay for a group slot and get nanny care for a day. |
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nannyde
![]() You really are doing drop in care. The only difference is that in traditional drop off care the parent isn't guaranteed the slot. They have to pay up front and use it or loose it. Your situation... |
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nannyde
![]() We had this thread a while back regarding what Illinois is doing to it's daycare providers: https://www.daycare.com/forum/showthread.php?t=88253 Post 39 pretty much sums up my feelings about... |
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nannyde
![]() I was born five days before the cut off so I was pretty much the youngest kid all through school. It was hard in some respects because I lacked maturity. It helped in some ways because my brother... |
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nannyde
![]() Finally Now it needs to extend to unsafe in swings, car seats, and without stuff in the bed or over the baby. |
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nannyde
![]() I would tell her that I charge more per day for children that don't want to be here so it's probably best not to relay that information or her rate will have to go up. |
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nannyde
![]() Always use the same reason or diagnosis the parent uses. If you want to give a reason why just say "he's just a really busy kid". |
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nannyde
![]() Short and sweet It doesn't matter what reason you give them they are going to be angry because you broke up with them. No need to get worried. You may want to check out the chapter in my book... |
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nannyde
![]() "wait till he's a teenager. Then you will hear some whoppers." |
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nannyde
![]() I have a hard time with the consequence of her loosing her child being considered as a portion of due punishment. I don't think a parent should be charged any differently in the death or life... |
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![]() https://www.desmoinesregister.com/story/news/crime-and-courts/2018/08/27/ankeny-mom-whose-baby-died-asphyxiation-sentenced-probation/1114786002/ |
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nannyde
![]() Could you be more specific on what "background" means? What degrees do you hold? I had to read your post quite a few times to try to figure out what points you were trying to make. Reading it... |
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nannyde
![]() Sounds like a job change is in order for you. We have risen far enough in our career to be able to demand paid time off. We choose when that is. Time to step up and get that... |
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nannyde
![]() I tell the truth and I don't do compliment sandwiches. I hate that. It dilutes the message. I don't play when it comes to discussing behavior issues. |
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nannyde
![]() Heck no. I don't love ALL KIDS. I do happen to fall in love with my daycare kids over time. I truly love them. I have had numerous staff assistants who were fantastic who didn't especially... |
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nannyde
![]() One calendar month and notice only received on Friday. |
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![]() Michael, black and me are the only ones I know of. |
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![]() Best to put it back onto her. "Oh, it was so late in the morning, I thought you had taken him out. If he arrives at eleven he missed out outdoor time. Next time you know. If you are going to come... |
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nannyde
![]() Parent's (or Doctor's and social workers for that matter) can't give you permission to do the wrong thing. Tell her that you would need a written statement from the Doctor BEFORE he returns... |
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![]() I hope they test the kids for Benadryl. This is disgusting but it's a prettyttypical neglect abuse story. What stood out to me was the camera on the car seat. I have been saying for years the... |
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![]() https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CZOeWFBy75A Here kitty kitty. Come snuggle with Mama |
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nannyde
![]() I wouldn't worry about helping the mom with her anxiety. I would just acknowledge it and offer the suggestion that she talk to the director about having a staff member just for her daughter that she... |
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![]() My son grew up in a daycare until he was nearly 14 and I never had him provide direct care to any children. I would NEVER have allowed diaper changes. I tried very hard to keep him out of the... |
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![]() severe case of PASS. Parental Attention Seeking Syndrome |
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nannyde
![]() I think we could only compare to countries that had the same car seat laws and weather. |
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nannyde
![]() I would copy the infant report daily and give it to the director. When she questions it, refer her to the director. Tell her she has a copy and she can make an appointment to discuss it. If the... |
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![]() She's changed it to drop in care so give her a drop in rate of 42 dollars a day. Tell her she must have his schedule by Friday at noon to secure care for the next week. It must be paid by the end... |
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nannyde
![]() I would just take a blanket with me to the park and have him lie down and rest in his own spot (not super close to you but close enough you can catch him if he decides to bolt) and just ignore him. ... |
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![]() Search tot-a-long Safety first I used those and just attached one side to the kids wrist and one to the stroller for the walkers. Loved them. |
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![]() I think the best defense is a good offense. I tried for nearly two decades to only provide services when parents were working. It worked with some parents but I got lied to so much that I finally... |
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nannyde
![]() I wouldn't say a word. Put them up and do with them as you wish. Does your state require you post notification of video surveillance? |
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![]() Only one in the Northern half of twenty. The Oregon one. HMMMM I wonder how that compares to other years. It's hot in Iowa in the summer and it goes on from May through September. |
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nannyde
![]() I have had to end an interview the second I opened the door. I tell them during the phone call and it's at the TOP of my website that no fragrance allowed. The ones I've turned away at the door... |
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nannyde
![]() What if you do have more interviews or plan to do more? What is unprofessional about telling that truth? There are so many life experiences where you have to wait to see if you are chosen. The... |
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nannyde
![]() This is more of a child support deal than child care deal. I think 1000 to 1500 a month is more reasonable than foster care rates. If he's loaded he can hire nurses to care for him at home and... |
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nannyde
![]() I think theoretically honesty is the best policy but in real life telling the parent your not the best caregiveror or the daycare isn't the best place for the child will get an immediate response of... |
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nannyde
![]() Once you say she can't pick up and stay past close she may just start arriving earlier so she can get you all to herself and have a front seat watching you do as you're told by her daughter when she... |
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nannyde
![]() https://www.daycare.com/nannyde/the-daycare-home-staff-assistant-part-4.htm I have a five part series on daycare staff assistants. Part four has some info on how I handle your concerns. Your... |
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nannyde
![]() You just need to charge a fee for it. Tell her the rate she has now is determined with a 2.5 hour nap daily. If she wants the child to be up it is X dollars per day to hire a staff assistant to... |
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nannyde
![]() Read black cats link first. You need to have a time period when it's not a choice for the mom to come in with or pick up the kid inside.I would do a couple of weeks if it's bad. Then gradually... |
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nannyde
![]() No worries. She can take Kindergarten twice if she needs to. If the parents can get free daycare for her first year of Kindergarten and then have her go to Kindergarten a second time both she... |
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nannyde
![]() I don't ever think about them thanking me. I do make it a practice to say "thank you" EVERY ... SINGLE... DAY at departure. I use it instead of "good bye". They are my customers. I want... |
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nannyde
![]() I just thank them for the interview and tell them I'm interviewing a number of families and should have a decision in the next month or so. I will let them know if I will offer them a second... |
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nannyde
![]() I'm surprised the Great Value organic soy milk isn't credible. That's what I drink. Wonder why? |
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nannyde
![]() Ouch I transition by adding one ounce of the milk to seven of the formula every three days. So Monday thru Wednesday is one ounce and then Thursday and Friday would be two ounces soy and six oz... |
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nannyde
![]() It's one of the very few places you can go and be anonymous. So many of the "groups" online now require you to use your real name. This can cause so many problems now. I can't imagine what the... |
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nannyde
![]() No but you could pick up early for lunch and then take the rest of the day off to spend with your child. Schedule your lunch trips on days you get off early. |