Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-18-2018, 07:23 AM
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Replies: 21
Views: 1,928
likethis
A wise provider friend once told me...
likethis
A wise provider friend once told me that we don't have the key to every child, and that's okay. It does become an issue, IMO, when the provider keeps the child even knowing they are not a...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-13-2018, 11:07 AM
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Replies: 112
Views: 10,282
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-06-2018, 12:28 PM
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Replies: 6,208
Views: 707,350
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-04-2018, 11:55 AM
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Replies: 6,208
Views: 707,350
I have to let mom of the new boys know that I...
I have to let mom of the new boys know that I won't have space for them this Fall, and I was going to wait until end of July. Well after yet another horrible nap time, I am telling her today in hopes...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-04-2018, 11:42 AM
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Replies: 21
Views: 1,591
Maybe even:
"DCM, Sorry for the confusion! I...
Maybe even:
"DCM, Sorry for the confusion! I thought your children's last day with me was the 19. Since my own kids will be home after that, I will no longer have space to accommodate your...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
06-04-2018, 11:39 AM
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Replies: 21
Views: 1,591
Wait, so they are supposed to be done? I would...
Wait, so they are supposed to be done? I would just tell her that having her kids will put you over your ratio so you will no longer be able to watch them. Give her the number to the referral agency...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-21-2018, 12:07 PM
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Replies: 6,208
Views: 707,350
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-21-2018, 10:35 AM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,806
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-18-2018, 06:27 AM
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Replies: 6,208
Views: 707,350
In a similar vein, we live in upstate NY. This...
In a similar vein, we live in upstate NY. This time of year can be wild, one day 80, the next in the 50's. Please don't allow your child to wear shorts and t's on those days just because "it was 80...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-16-2018, 12:22 PM
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,567
This. I rarely have teachers now who don't use...
This. I rarely have teachers now who don't use some part of the summer. Most have other jobs, teach summer school, or have curriculum planning days and need day care.
But one of the best things I...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-16-2018, 12:12 PM
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,202
Yikes! That would make me want to term. I am...
Yikes! That would make me want to term. I am clear that they are NOT to bother my neighbors in any way, shape, or form. And that mom doesn't seem to care/stop it just smacks of blatant disrespect....
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-16-2018, 11:47 AM
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,202
This!
I opened this thread thinking it would...
This!
I opened this thread thinking it would be about an infant/young toddler (my current issue:ouch: ). At 3 I would be cutting that crap out. He's old enough to be told to knock it off. And his...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-16-2018, 11:42 AM
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Replies: 6,208
Views: 707,350
My one 2 yo dcg is drop in while mom is on MAT...
My one 2 yo dcg is drop in while mom is on MAT leave. I LOVE this family, But holy heck today was TERRIBLE. Tantrum after tantrum, crying, whining, etc. If another child came near her it was "No no...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-15-2018, 10:24 AM
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Replies: 31
Views: 3,336
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-15-2018, 04:04 AM
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Replies: 31
Views: 3,336
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-15-2018, 04:00 AM
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Replies: 31
Views: 3,336
Yes, it's not one or the other. You do both.
...
Yes, it's not one or the other. You do both.
I was a Tier 1 provider for the last 5 years and recently got bumped to Tier 2. Truthfully I am debating staying on, as I've had some minor issues...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-14-2018, 04:16 PM
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,641
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-14-2018, 12:17 PM
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,641
I seem to recall being told by my sponsoring...
I seem to recall being told by my sponsoring agency that if they come to observe a meal and anything other than milk is on the table, they won't credit it. Are they just not interpreting the rule...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-14-2018, 10:35 AM
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Replies: 6,208
Views: 707,350
4 yo DCB is working my last nerve. If the other...
4 yo DCB is working my last nerve. If the other kids stop playing with him (because he's being bossy or whiny) he looks to me to entertain him. When I won't (because I am not about to rescue him from...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-09-2018, 06:43 AM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,436
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Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
05-08-2018, 12:56 PM
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Replies: 6
Views: 4,084
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-08-2018, 11:08 AM
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,784
If I were to get a divorce, I would insist on...
If I were to get a divorce, I would insist on selling the home and splitting any profit. That money would be used to purchase a smaller home with little yard (less maintenance costs) One of the main...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-08-2018, 10:56 AM
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Replies: 20
Views: 5,805
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-08-2018, 10:28 AM
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Replies: 20
Views: 5,805
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-04-2018, 06:53 AM
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Replies: 32
Views: 2,484
Wait! They were with you less than a year and...
Wait! They were with you less than a year and there's drama because her dd is soooooo attached to yours?
The award for best actress in a drama goes to...
Day care mom!!!! :lol::lol:
I agree...
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Forum: Parents and Guardians Forum
05-03-2018, 12:20 PM
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Replies: 16
Views: 3,408
What did they say the issue was that they...
What did they say the issue was that they couldn't get him and forgot to call? Are you happy with the care and communication otherwise? All that would weigh heavily in how I felt. If your child had...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-03-2018, 04:22 AM
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Replies: 4
Views: 1,402
I would term and not look back.
I tell...
I would term and not look back.
I tell parents very bluntly during the interview period that any infractions to the contract will result in me not offering them the spot permanently. So no late...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-03-2018, 04:19 AM
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Replies: 32
Views: 2,484
Yep.
And this is why I started sending my...
Yep.
And this is why I started sending my own kids to preschool, camps, lessons, and even play dates, etc. during day care. Parents truly start thinking your kids/family is part of the "package"...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-02-2018, 12:02 PM
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,396
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-02-2018, 11:59 AM
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Replies: 6,208
Views: 707,350
My almost 2 yo dcg has never been the best...
My almost 2 yo dcg has never been the best napper. She was in isolation, lol, until recently. She always wakes way before everyone else and starts chatting, singing, etc. I've tried the firm "shh!...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
05-02-2018, 04:07 AM
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,386
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-30-2018, 02:52 PM
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Replies: 42
Views: 3,344
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-30-2018, 01:47 PM
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Replies: 42
Views: 3,344
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-27-2018, 11:45 AM
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,169
I haven't watched that one. But I did watch an...
I haven't watched that one. But I did watch an investigative special years ago which also warned of the dangers of SBS diagnosis. It's been shown that common childhood falls *can* cause injuries...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-27-2018, 09:36 AM
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,696
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-27-2018, 08:14 AM
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,695
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-25-2018, 09:35 AM
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,228
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-25-2018, 09:33 AM
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Replies: 23
Views: 1,557
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-25-2018, 06:26 AM
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,225
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-24-2018, 04:25 AM
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,166
Because it's attention.
They call it the...
Because it's attention.
They call it the "effing 4's" for a reason. :eek::ouch::o
For pick ups, I would do bye bye outside. Have the parents text when they pull in, you get her ready and hand...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-23-2018, 04:11 PM
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,480
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-20-2018, 11:04 AM
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,805
Yeah, I wouldn't even care. I find it tiresome...
Yeah, I wouldn't even care. I find it tiresome when people who don't know the child assume they know what the child needs. I get it, whining is irritating and hard to listen to, but let's not teach...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-20-2018, 06:36 AM
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Replies: 14
Views: 3,911
This is true, although when I've replaced...
This is true, although when I've replaced families the new ones are usually much better. Mostly because I tell them in the interview the reason I have an opening is due to terming a family who didn't...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-20-2018, 06:32 AM
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,121
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-19-2018, 01:37 PM
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,121
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-18-2018, 01:27 PM
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Replies: 6,208
Views: 707,350
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-18-2018, 12:54 PM
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Replies: 5
Views: 971
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-18-2018, 11:35 AM
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Replies: 5
Views: 971
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-18-2018, 08:29 AM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,182
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-17-2018, 02:36 PM
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Replies: 14
Views: 3,911
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-17-2018, 11:03 AM
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,726
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-17-2018, 10:30 AM
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Replies: 14
Views: 3,911
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-17-2018, 04:13 AM
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Replies: 33
Views: 2,450
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-16-2018, 10:28 AM
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Replies: 33
Views: 2,450
I think you can play this two ways. ;)
If...
I think you can play this two ways. ;)
If you like the family and don't mind doing before/after you can always say "DCM, I am firming up my plans for the Fall, just making sure that things are...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-14-2018, 11:32 AM
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,984
:hug::hug:
No matter how "bad" the term...
:hug::hug:
No matter how "bad" the term went, you are done. happyface
And come Monday when you will realize the full extent of just how bad/stressful it was, you will feel WONDERFUL to have it...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-13-2018, 11:51 AM
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Replies: 24
Views: 1,843
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-13-2018, 11:45 AM
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Replies: 6,208
Views: 707,350
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-13-2018, 10:16 AM
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Replies: 6,208
Views: 707,350
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-13-2018, 10:01 AM
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Replies: 40
Views: 2,829
The space issue was mine also. I usually only...
The space issue was mine also. I usually only take one under one, but the past year I juggled three under 1 :eek::eek: Every one wanted to have their bucket seat here and I was constantly tripping...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-12-2018, 04:00 AM
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,871
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-11-2018, 05:25 PM
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,318
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-11-2018, 12:01 PM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,858
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-11-2018, 10:03 AM
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Replies: 6,208
Views: 707,350
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-11-2018, 06:21 AM
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,984
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-11-2018, 04:10 AM
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Replies: 22
Views: 1,713
When I have a younger group, our free play time...
When I have a younger group, our free play time is very limited. It's a pain because it means I have to remember to put kids "up" whenever I can't be right with them. But this past year when all my...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-10-2018, 12:28 PM
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Replies: 33
Views: 9,641
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-10-2018, 12:16 PM
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,004
Not BC, but I have a strict illness policy and...
Not BC, but I have a strict illness policy and have no issue calling for and insisting on pick ups. We *rarely* have illness run rampant through day care because of this.
I have said before that...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-10-2018, 05:37 AM
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,004
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-10-2018, 04:23 AM
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Replies: 33
Views: 9,641
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-10-2018, 04:18 AM
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Replies: 2,147
Views: 355,217
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-10-2018, 04:14 AM
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Replies: 6,208
Views: 707,350
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-09-2018, 12:57 PM
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Replies: 6,208
Views: 707,350
My DD is in a class with a girl who was held...
My DD is in a class with a girl who was held back. Girl has a July birthday and is nearly a full year older than DD (June Birthday). It hasn't held the girl back at all, she's top of the class, best...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-09-2018, 09:52 AM
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Replies: 6,208
Views: 707,350
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-09-2018, 03:58 AM
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Replies: 6,208
Views: 707,350
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-08-2018, 08:53 PM
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Replies: 19
Views: 1,636
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-08-2018, 03:45 PM
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Replies: 19
Views: 1,636
Your ROI (return on investment) is waaaaaaaaay...
Your ROI (return on investment) is waaaaaaaaay off here.
I wouldn't put up with that for a very PT family who strung you along like they did. I wouldn't even wait for a next time as I refuse to...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-07-2018, 07:45 AM
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Replies: 86
Views: 7,294
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Forum: Daycare and Taxes
04-02-2018, 02:49 PM
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Replies: 3
Views: 1,474
Not Able to Deduct Camps?
In the past we've been able to deduct the cost of sending our kids to summer camps and other activities as they are too old for my day care (under 5) but not old enough to be on their own.
This...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
04-02-2018, 09:00 AM
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,287
In the past I've done this when I've been open...
In the past I've done this when I've been open for a Federal Holiday but then wind up with no kids, or just one. I would do a sign up sheet with a three child minimum (or a two family minimum if one...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-30-2018, 12:14 PM
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Replies: 6,208
Views: 707,350
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-29-2018, 11:44 AM
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Replies: 2,147
Views: 355,217
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-29-2018, 11:38 AM
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Replies: 25
Views: 1,814
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-29-2018, 11:01 AM
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Replies: 2,147
Views: 355,217
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-29-2018, 10:57 AM
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Replies: 25
Views: 1,814
I LOVE my magnet locks. The best part is that...
I LOVE my magnet locks. The best part is that they can be turned "off" when you don't need them. I've even had my tougher day care boy try to open them when locked, and he couldn't.
So much...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-28-2018, 01:26 PM
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,713
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-28-2018, 11:25 AM
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Replies: 27
Views: 3,401
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-27-2018, 10:17 AM
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Replies: 4
Views: 1,194
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-26-2018, 04:34 PM
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Replies: 25
Views: 1,990
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-26-2018, 11:58 AM
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,505
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-26-2018, 11:16 AM
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,505
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-26-2018, 11:12 AM
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,505
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-25-2018, 07:07 AM
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,693
Wen I first started out I got a couple of...
Wen I first started out I got a couple of families from a provider who was retiring. She had gone all out for every holiday and gave the kids gift baskets for every.single.one. They fully expected me...
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-23-2018, 01:27 PM
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,233
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-23-2018, 01:14 PM
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Replies: 18
Views: 2,000
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-23-2018, 01:12 PM
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Replies: 25
Views: 1,990
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-23-2018, 12:31 PM
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Replies: 25
Views: 1,990
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-23-2018, 11:17 AM
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Replies: 6,208
Views: 707,350
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-23-2018, 10:29 AM
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Replies: 6,208
Views: 707,350
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-23-2018, 07:07 AM
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Replies: 18
Views: 2,000
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Forum: Daycare Center and Family Home Forum
03-23-2018, 06:27 AM
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Replies: 21
Views: 1,935
I don't really do much for Easter. Unlike...
I don't really do much for Easter. Unlike Christmas which is also celebrated secularly, Easter for obvious reasons has more of a religious feel. I do get some plastic eggs and paper basket grass for...
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