Originally Posted by Blackcat31:
This mother is a selfish mother.
Everything she is doing is for her and not her child.
If she truly wanted her child to adjust she would be doing things to make it easier not harder.
If your director can't give more assistance or additional advice other than to just keep doing what you are doing, I would go to her every single time the child arrives and ask that she step in for drop offs. Once the child has been dropped off and is comfortable, the director can hand off duties to you.
This!
She probably wants to stay home and is trying to this to get her way.At that age separation anxiety is difficult if they have never been in daycare. I have babies that age that never cry and do not care because they have been with me and built that trust. This poor baby will not adjust if mom does not let her.