ok.. that info helped a bit.. let me ask you this then, if i pay her what is stated in the contract(4 weeks of care whether he is there or not).. would the fact that she took my child in a vehicle without permission still be something for me to stand on as far as her licensing goes?

i really don't agree with it and think it was wrong of her to do..i have no doubt that if she were to have given me more advanced notice, i would have been able to work something out..but the attitude she is giving me and the way she is responding is so childish and uncalled for, i need something that will make her see it from my perspective and be reasonable.