Originally Posted by daycare:
I agree with you, except that fact that he made a threat to the DCP ....Why would you want to wait it out to call his bluff on that??
I had to go back and reread the original post to see why my opinion is so unpopular. LOL!!!
After rereading the post, I stand by my opinion. I just don't see his threat as being a big deal. He didn't threaten her person, her family, or the 17 month old. He was simply being a hot head. PLUS, even if he did contact the state, do you think they would actually look down upon her because a toddler pushed a baby down twice? I don't think so...
I would do two things:
#1 I would send the DCD a certified letter (or warning) that if he attempted to bully or threaten me again - child care services would be terminated.
#2 I would then do what Nan suggested and NEVER allow the 17 month old access to the baby.
Good or bad, right or wrong, that's what I would do.