I told the moms I appreciate them as parents and that they were free to get dinner with their SO or even take a nap. I know it's not every chance they get some time alone at home or out besides at work so I don't mind offering up some time. They have bent over backwards to accommodate me so I wanted to return the favor.

They seem so grateful I'll have to do more "surprise extended hours" again. Not so much that they'd expect it or ask to use me as a "well she did offer it so maybe she'll do it over and over again if I ask and pay" regular odd hours sitter. Moreso because I want them to know I do value them.

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