I think it all depends on how much you love your provider. If you just love love love her and her care of your child, then you will probably need to pay her and bite your tongue. Because if you argue with her or just not pay her I would be afraid for your child continuing in her care. Seeing as she seems alittle off I would fear her frustration with you being taken out on your child.

I do not have a back up for days when I am closed, but my contract only gives me 2 sick/personal days a month. Which I do not use every month. After the 2 days I prorate all other time I need to take off.

If I was in your shoes, I would start looking for another provider. If she has given you a hand book on her rules but you did not sign a contract your do not have to follow those rules. If you had been given the book sooner you and your provider would not be in this boat. You probably would have bailed sooner.

I would have.

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