Originally Posted by daycare:
do you think that it makes a difference if you worked out of the home more while they were infant/toddler vs preteen-teenager??
Truthfully, I have no idea.
When I say I can't do both. I really can't. The guilt and nightmares of my first child dying in daycare still eat at me. I have not been able to move past it.
Maybe I am not really supposed to?
I do know my every waking moment is taken up with projects, meetings, schedules, SAT preps, tutors and being a crying shoulder for adolescent heartbreaks.
I can't bake cupcakes and heal the world anymore..
It has gotten sooooo hard. Blackcat can better answer your question.
I will be leaning on her alot in the next couple years as they start to pull away.
I know developmentally it is coming and I am trying to prepare myself for it.
