I find I get the same way when I am due for a day off. Can you take an unplanned day in the coming weeks just for you?
And, the next time your husband complains about his job, tell him to shut it and just deal.
In all seriousness, I find I have to tell my husband "I'm not looking for advice, I just need to get this out," when I have a complaint. Because otherwise he tries to "fix" things.
