My food program requires that it be poured into his cup and put in front of him, but he doesn’t have to drink it.

The only way around that is if I pour it into a smaller piture, and put it on the table for the kids to pour themselves, but it’s the same end result because I have to put the correct amount of ounces for everyone in it, and dump what’s not used at the end of the meal. Here, he could have two cups, one with water and one with milk. My kid table is just small and everyone can reach everything. So having two cups for kids means more chance of spills. I’d want him to be discrete because none of my kids would even try the milk if they knew they could dump it and get water. A few of them should be trying it because they need the extra calories. These are the kids that don’t drink it here because they get chocolate milk at home.

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