Honestly, it doesn't matter to me what they say at home, it only matter what happens at daycare.

A potty training child would need to be able to let me know they need the bathroom and pretty much do it themselves once in the bathroom. I'm happy to assist while they are still perfecting their skills, but I wouldn't sit a child on the toilet and do the whole process for them.

Children also have to be dry in pull ups to be considered accident free, so regardless of their deadline, I would have my own 2 week policy that I follow. Any accidents resets the 2 week clock for when they can be diaper free at my home.

I also refuse to potty train a child who is not actively interested in learning. So regardless of what parents say, I would decide what happens at day care.

I guess that's all a really long way of saying do what you need to do during group care, regardless of what is happening with parents at home!

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