My siblings recently did something that really hurt me. I was super upset and didn't know if I should say something or not.
I asked DH for advice, and he said "they have no idea that they even hurt you" which is the truth. If I had said something, I most likely would have to explain to them what they did that hurt me. Then continue to explain why I was hurt and so forth. I decided that it was too much work and I'd just never offer to help again.

The we / we're that annoys you could be her way of always talking inclusive. Pay attention and see if she only uses we, they, or us vs him, her nouns.
Or the next time she says "she is going ........" Repeat it back to her by saying "we are going..... That sounds like fun" (if you want to add, "when do we leave?"). Let her be annoyed, because she won't want you to come along.

But just remember "they have no idea that they just.... you."

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