I see both sides of this issue and as a daycare provider it bothers me when parents talk bad about their provider. If you are unhappy find a provider you can work with. There are so many good ones out there.
I do not get paid vacation or sick but I do get paid holidays. I understand that it is hard to pay a provider when not getting services. I care deeply for all the children in my care and open my home to them. I do expect respect from my parents and open communication. If you have a problem discuss it. If you cant live with it then find new daycare. You should have a close relationship like family with your provider and if you don't, I feel bad for all involved.
I am not in this for the money as if after expenses its a huge salary, its because I enjoy it and get to spend my day laughing and playing with children.
Its a family business and all parties have to be happy in order to make it work.
Good Luck....
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