Originally Posted by Mad_Pistachio:
I only wanted to chime in on the child's racial slur: this is something learned from another adult, and that adult is highly likely to be her mother - the one going off at you for your son's behavior. kids don't come up with that stuff by themselves.
I agree. I would term for that obvious disrespect right off the bat. Why work with someone who would treat you that way? Her child learned those words somewhere.
