After all that's been said and done, I would give notice. Since they're looking already, it would be better to have some control on your end. Some families/providers just don't have the right chemistry... not your fault. She probably lost a lot of your trust when she wasn't up front about ds's hearing. Be prepared though, it will probably be hard for her to find a new daycare due ds's issues (no naps, lack of hearing, etc.), so I would probably work with her on a end date so theres a little flexibility on your end. It may soften the blow since she seems emotionally charged. Otherwise it could end up biting you in the butt, if she thinks she's been wronged in any way.

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