Originally Posted by nannyde:
I get full week bonuses all the time and two weeks if the family has been with me for a few years. I've never felt an obligation to bend rules because of it. I've never felt indebtedness.
The bonus is for what you HAVE done not what you are GOING to do.
I work hard.
I don't miss work.
I'm on time ready to go every day.
I take excellent care of their baby. I strive for precision care... perfect care.
I'm respectful to the parents. I know my place.
I'm extremely grateful for their business.
and for an extra bonus... I love their kid. A lot.
So that's "why".
I wasn't trying to change anyone's mind though. It's the way I feel about receiving gifts in general. And to ME, a well thought out and personalized gift conveys their gratitude the best.