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How long have you had him in care? Is he full time or part time? What is mom like as far as discipline or routine?
Is she consistent with him as far as those things as far as you can tell? Is there a father in his life? Other family members?
Sorry for all the questions but it's hard to know if it's just a phase or if it's just his chaotic life know what I mean?
It's also wise to recognize that he may just not be cut out for daycare. Some kids just don't do well in care (any care) no matter what.
As a provider it's a wonderful thing that we have the ability at times to make a positive influence in a child's life but its also good to remember that we can't save everyone and sometimes the best thing for everyone (you, the daycare child, the other daycare kids etc) to just terminate care.
It's hard to know though which option is the right one so good for you for trying to figure it out....but remember it's not failure if you can't figure it out.
