Originally Posted by Mike:
I say take that one. 
Look at the positive side. You can rebuild exactly the way you like. 
Apparently he doesn't care what house or where. Must mean all he cares about is being with you. Maybe you need to talk to him about the plans and ask if he can help with the decision.
As for where, what about searching to find out what the needs are in different areas. In general, more population is better, but smaller areas may not have any local daycare.
Thanks mike, I like your perspective on it
I'll try to remember that when I start to get frustrated with his lack of feedback.