Sad. So sad. On the other hand ... have you seen some of these men and how they handle "taking care of the children"? For example, I'd rather stay at home an not have date night rather than have my BIL "watch" my kids. I went over one day and his wife's nephews were wolloping each other in a full blown brawl in the middle of the living room floor while he sat back and encouraged them and all he said said was "What? They're boys"
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