Originally Posted by Mummy101:
The only thing I don’t agree with is altering the surroundings to prevent misbehavior. I want my kiddos to adapt to the rules of the house, not the rules of the house to adapt to their whims. To me, removing the problem in a way condones the behavior. I would rather teach self-regulation and consequences for decisions made. (Obviously safety hazards aside)
Common sense however, dictates that we leave nothing within reach that should it get destroyed or broken that it's not the end of the world.
I have many items within reach of the kids that I do NOT want broken or destroyed but something of major value is not something I am willing to "risk".
Curtain rod... meh... unless a safety hazard is no biggie.
Expensive gate that you don't want to replace frequently...don't use WHILE teaching kids boundaries/proper behavior.
AFTER you (general you) KNOW the kids better and are better able to both predict and teach more positive behaviors.... A-okay.
