Nan,
You will see that you are combining two threads into one experience.
You are absolutely right. I have NO memory of posting in that thread. Time to up my dosage of Ginkgo.
One thing tho... it's kind of a negative to the others who have the same core philosphy I have that they don't have a complete mind of their own.
I believe a lot of people have your same core philosophy and the majority of posters on this forum have a mind of their own. I also think there are a few who would drink the koolaid if you wanted them too. 
I've had numerous convos with providers who are on this site that I consult for and they have expressed concern that they feel like they CAN'T chime in when they agree for fear of being labeled or thought of as you have described.
Really??? I (personally) have never seen anyone that agrees with you get ganged up on. It has always been the other way around. BUT, I probably read 20% of what goes on here, so you could very well be right.
Check your p.m. box here in a bit and I'll send you the link.
Thank you very much. 