My first thought is that behaviors probably have not changed, but that the new caregiver is less accustomed to the behaviors. If I sent home a note for every naughty thing I encountered, there would be no trees left on the planet. I talk to parents only about things that are not age appropriate, things that are extreme (persistent biting or other concerning behavior), things that are totally out of character for a child, etc. When I report to parents, it's not to tattle-it's to problem solve. My guess is that this caregiver is a tattler, and that it will probably die down as she gets used to caring for kids. That said-the stopping naps could be causing behavior issues. Most kids need naps through age 6. Missing out on that daytime rest is probably hard for him. Could they have him start resting for an hour, whether he naps or not? It can really help a kid reset their emotions.

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