Originally Posted by MarinaVanessa:
I'm one of those that "plays tricks" on my husband. Is it childish, probably but talking and having a conversation with MY husband does not work if he perceives that an issue for me is a non-issue. Are these issues big enough to divorce each other over? Definitely not. Are they small enough to just ignore and move on and accept that it will always be that way ... no, definitely not that either.
So then lies the obstacle of trying to figure out how to reach him and make him understand that his actions are hurtful or at minimum cumbersome for me. For me that means putting him in my shoes. I have found that is the best way. Call it passive aggressive and childish but it works and it's a better alternative than us yelling and screaming at each other. In the end (in my case) it ends with a laugh and he "gets it". No real drama and no fight.
Brooksi, I get it.
BOOM! Thanks MV
