Originally Posted by EntropyControlSpecialist:
Veggie straws are not healthy and they are not grain free. I cannot eat them.
Maybe, just maybe, they were a rare treat for the child? 
I can see them being a treat for the dck, but a dcp with any common sense wouldn't send them to the daycare provider they've been trying to convince to provide a modified diet, kwim? IMO, if this parent is sending grains with their child then it probably isn't the big priority dcm is trying to make it seem. I think you did good with the new contract. Hopefully she just goes with it.