Op- I really hope you don't leave us. Your post was a really good one...it makes us all talk about WWYD if that was happening to us. No one is really coming down on you and to be honest I really respect everyone on here even though I might not agree with what everyone says. But I feel comfortable being able to voice my opinion and knowing that by dishing out what I think and feel in return others may do the same. Everyone makes really good points. I appreciate that. Don't not contribute to this forum bc of what's being said. People are just voicing what they think they would of done or what you could do. It's up to you on whether you want to take that advice. I really hope you'll stay though.
I really would like to know what your going to do now and follow with you through this. We all do....Hugs!!