Originally Posted by Josiegirl:
Hmmm, he's done fine at other places but not this particular place? I don't think your son failed anything; I have a feeling it was more like the dcprovider failed him and she didn't give it enough effort. Dynamics are different everywhere, personalities and temperaments clash certainly. But after she said all she did about working with challenging behaviors before, either these through her for a major loop or she was bs'ing to get you in the door.
No sorry, I guess I wasn't clear...he hasn't been anywhere for longer than a few hours here and there for hourly care...otherwise he has ALWAYS been with me so I knew it would be rough on him. As a provider I had worked with children before he moaned and cried and screamed and eventually with some prodding and patience they got through it. Some it would only take the few weeks and others it took longer. So I guess I was just disappointed that she didn't try harder I guess since she knew I used to be a full time provider myself :/