I completely understand. My child is aggressive only during daycare. Outside everyone comments on how good he is. He has his incredibly sweet moments but it only takes a second. And, usually that is what is one second of aggressive behavior. It's exhausting for me though and I don't like how I have to parent differently.

I have done everything mentioned here. I shadow, set consequences, have separate daycare toys and personal toys, outside time because that is what he needs, and the biggest looking for triggers. It also sways, one day will be bad and then weeks will be good.

I just take it on a daily basis. So, know that you are not alone.

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