I'd be very honest with her about the good behavior coming from being fed the correct amount. If she noticed the change in behavior, there is her proof that she NEEDS to feed him more. If she refuses, to send the food, I would be handing her the receipts for the food you buy.

I never hold back information about kids, even if I think the parents don't want to hear it. I always say it nicely, but honestly. I know its touchy with friends, but just keep in mind, that poor kiddo is hungry. Would you rather he be hungry just to keep her feelings intact?

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