Originally Posted by grandmom:
I tell parents in the initial interview: Your children will naturally test the boundaries when you are here because they want to know who's in charge when both you and I are here. You are of course, welcome to discipline. However, I let them know that I am in charge when they are at my home.
Then, I do it. I talk sternly and tell them in front of the parents, these are not your things. Please do not touch them. I believe parents look to us for modeling. And part of our job is modeling for them how to parent.
Good luck.
Yes... I like this. I might add something like this into my discipline section of my parent handbook and cover this aspect during the interview as well.