Originally Posted by daycarediva:
I would be blunt.
She is perfectly on target for her age and height. She's beautiful. However, those comments could be detrimental to her emotional well being long term, young children are highly perceptive.
If it persisted, "We don't call names, it's impolite." "We don't comment on appearances, it's rude."
followed by a meeting with both parents present.
Wonder how this 'dad of the year' treats dcm. ?
DD's best friend's dad makes similar comments to his daughter. She's now 92 lbs and entering her second stint in an eating disorder facility. I'd like to smack his fat face. 
I like this because it secretly amuses me to treat him like a child.
Also yeah, that thought crossed my mind. He probably treats dcm poorly.