I don't think that would bother new clients to have you doing part and her doing the other. But parents will figure really fast that she won't say anything and will do things when you are not there because they will know they can get her. She will have to open up a little bit. I Have been doing this for almost 11 yrs and I also am very much the type that doesn't want to make anybody mad or tell someone no. But after you get stepped one enough it will get easier. I will sent out parent letters and hang note on my door when something is coming up. Something like this... Reminder I will be off paid July 4th for the holiday see you on the 5th. Every winter I have to send out notes about having winter clothes and that is something I have done since I started you just have to keep reminding them of things i don't think half the parents read the contract. Keep telling them over and over and they will realize what is and will be happening at your house. Hope this helps

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