Ooh, I had a response all types out and never sent it. Gah!

The communication is not great, and I think that's one of the reasons I'm lukewarm. She is minimally responsive to my direct questions, but it feels like pulling teeth to get much info. I appreciate the perspectives on the other crying children though.

Evan has continued to improve his attitude at both drop off and pick up, and seems to be forming a decent relationship with her and the assistant. I think it is just as ThriftyLady says - she's just more of a hands off caregiver, and I guess I would prefer something a little more interactive and at least loosely structured.

So, I guess it is currently best to keep him there - it isn't harmful to him, just not ideal. So the question now is, with the new baby coming soon and another huge life transition, when do I switch him if/when I find someone better?

Thanks for your help!

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